Questions from a book on deciding whether to have abortion

The book Marjorie Skowronski “Abortion and Alternatives” is an abortion decision-making book. This is a paraphrase of a list of questions the book says those considering abortion should ask themselves:

“Do I want to have a child now? Ever? What do I think is the ideal age and time for me to have a child? Why?…

Do I feel any pressure from other people to have children? Who? Why do they feel that way?

How much time do I want to spend a child rearing? On a day-to-day basis?…

As far as work goes, am I finished with my schooling and professional training? What are my future school and training plans? What job is my goal?

How do women who do that job raise children at the same time?”

These questions all have to do with a woman’s choice of lifestyle. They are questions she asks herself when weighing whether or not to kill a baby.

Tamara A. Roleff Abortion: Opposing Viewpoints (San Diego, CA: Greenhaven Press, 1997)

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Some women wish to be pregnant, but don’t want to give birth

From a textbook used to train abortion clinic counselors:

“There is a marked distinction between the wish to become pregnant and the wish to bring a live child into the world.”

D. Pines A Woman’s Unconscious Use of her Body (London: VVirago, 1993) 97

Quoted in the textbook:

Joanna Brien, Ida Fairbairn Pregnancy and Abortion Counseling (London: Routledge, 1996) 19

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Nurse on late-term abortions

From a British nurse working in an abortion clinic:

“Late abortions – well, I wouldn’t want to be in theatre [where operations take place] all the time. But, frankly, I feel more anguish listening to the women’s stories.”

From The Guardian November 2, 1989

Quoted in Jenny Bryan Abortion (East Sussex, England: Wayland Publishers Limited, 1991) 41

6 month old baby, before and after abortion

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Donating tissue makes some women feel better about abortion

The following question was asked to women in a poll:

“If you became pregnant and knew that tissue from the fetus could be used to help someone suffering from Parkinson’s disease, how would you feel about having an abortion?

The results were (approximately):

Better: 49%

Worse: 10%

No different: 45%

Uncertain: 12%

Douglas K Martin et al., Canadian Medical Association Journal, September 1, 1995

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Woman’s view of her baby changes with ultrasound

A woman who had an unexpected pregnancy and had tentatively decided to carry to term, but still was unsure, had her whole mindset changed by seeing her baby on the ultrasound.

“Unfortunately, she says, her maternal instincts did not respond to reason: when a young friend placed her baby in her arms, she found herself looking with distaste into “a little scrunched face inspiring no tenderness, only intense tedium at the thought of tending him. What was I going to do with a baby I couldn’t return to his mother?”

She arranged to have an amniocentesis… though she was not sure – despite her reservations – what it would cost her emotionally to have an abortion if something went wrong.

When told she had as much chance of having a miscarriage from the amniocentesis as she did, at her age, of having a Down syndrome child, she hoped for the miscarriage: “That is until, lying on the table where the procedure was to take place, I saw the ultrasound scan on a television monitor above me reveal the perfectly shaped head of the child I carried. I wanted that baby!”

Faith Abbott “A Tale of Two Women” Human Life Review Spring 1993

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No one loved the baby I aborted more then I did

From a woman who decided to have an abortion. She describes how she came to the decision:

“I take my plight directly to God through prayer. I receive the answer that, having borne 3 children already, I know the gift of a baby. But I can give back the gift if the burden is too great, and it will be taken back into the universe. The greatest punishment I will receive is that which I am already suffering – the knowledge that I will never know this child.

This child, already built to outlast me, will never see the light of day, never be loved by its sister’s and brother, will never learn or marry or have children, never grow old…

My choice was not simple: it was not made out of disregard for life but because of the desire to protect my family. No one loved that incipient child more than I did.”

Madelein Gray “Giving up the Gift” Commonweal February 25, 1994

She loved her baby so much, she killed her.

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Couple gives reasons for aborting baby with down syndrome

A couple gave their reasons for aborting their child with down syndrome, a boy. The mother, Natalie said:

“A seriously handicapped child takes a lot from your life that you wouldn’t otherwise have to give. I think life is difficult enough as it is. It didn’t make sense to us to start [a baby] out with severe problems, to go into it knowing.”

The father, Richard, said:

“Both of us are in jobs that are a lot more than jobs. They’re things that we do because we believe in the work. All those things would have been affected by a life of caring for a Down’s child.”

At the time of the interview, Natalie was pregnant again:

“When we spoke to her she was pregnant again. “Our chances are much higher now that we’ve had a Down fetus…for some reason they don’t understand, once you have a Down baby, the recurrence rate goes to one in a hundred- bingo- for all ages.”

If her next baby had down’s, she was going to abort again.

“Natalie asserted that her and her husband’s decision to abort their Down syndrome fetus was the right one and they would do the same thing again….”My best guess is that if the CVS were not available…I don’t think I would have tried to get pregnant again.”….She said she would still abort her current pregnancy.”

Fortunately, her baby was found to be a healthy girl, and they allowed her to live.

Kate Maloy and Maggie Jones Patterson Birth or Abortion? Private Struggles in a Political World (New York: Plenum Press, 1992)

Both parents chose abortion not out of concern for the well-being of the child, but because they did not want to make the sacrifices needed to raise the baby. In fact, there is a waiting list to adopt Down Syndrome children, so they could have given birth without raising the child at all.

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Woman who kept late-in-life baby has no regrets

From a woman who became pregnant late in life, after her other children were grown. She considered abortion, but had her baby. She has no regrets and says:

“We have found special pleasure in having our “bonus baby” now that her siblings are away. We have the kind of close conversation with her at dinner that was rarely possible when our noisy threesome was at the table.”… Bonus baby and her mother “enjoy an easy intimacy, her questions about the adult world recalling those I asked in my own girlhood as an only child. She loves to report the responses over the telephone to her brothers and sister for verification and delights, as I do, in the abundant love she receives from them even at a distance… Older mother and young daughter, our relationship is rich – unsettling and satisfying, as is any relationship bound by love.”

Faith Abbott “A Tale of Two Women” Human Life Review Spring 1993

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Problems with information on abortion’s risks

Pro-lifer Mark Crutcher explains how information about the risks of abortion given to women at abortion clinics are often inaccurate, because all women get the same information regardless of how far along they are or what health problems they already have:

“The problem is that almost every risk factor increases – sometimes dramatically – as the pregnancy progresses. It has also been documented that young girls are considerably more like suffer certain injuries than are adult women and that conditions like obesity or diabetes also increase the risks associated with having an abortion.

However, under the current system, a 12-year-old obese diabetic undergoing a 24 week abortion is given the same informed consent as a thin and healthy 25-year-old who’s having a 10 week abortion – despite the fact that the 12-year-old patient faces a much higher possibility of injury or death.

Studies have also found that injuries are more likely to occur in abortions that are performed by nonphysicians. If the informed consent document a woman is given states that a particular injury occurs only once every X number of all abortions, but they are providing a nonphysician to do her abortion, she has been deceived.”

Mark Crutcher Siege: Pro-Life Field Manual (Denton, Texas: Life Dynamics Inc., 2015) 140

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Study with aborted babies “raised no eyebrows”

Pro-Life author William Brennan wrote about a study that was done using aborted babies:

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“At a combined meeting of the American Pediatric Society and the Society for Pediatric Research held in San Francisco, California (May 1973) Dr. Peter Adam and colleagues presented a paper containing details about the procedure used to cut off the heads of aborted babies for the purpose of studying fetal brain metabolism. Some of the leading pediatricians and pediatric surgeons in America heard Dr. Adam’s disclosures “No one even raised an eyebrow” among those in attendance.”

This was written about in “Post-Abortion Fetal Study Stirs Storm” Medical World News June 8, 1973, p 21

The exact quote comes from William Brennan The Abortion Holocaust: Today’s Final Solution (St. Louis, Missouri, 1983) 69

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