My babies understood why I was aborting them, woman says

A woman talking about her 2nd abortion said:

“But I really feel good that I made the decision, not to have the baby. Again, I pretty much had made my decision, talked to myself, you know, constantly, talked to my sister, talked to the baby. ‘Cause I definitely believe that when you get pregnant, I don’t care if it is just a little … little form there… It feels, picks up on the vibes. I really do believe that. So it was important for me to let the baby know that. It just wasn’t a good idea to have another baby right now. Not this time in my life. That it was time for me to get on to other things that I have to do for me. Both times I felt that the baby understood that wasn’t the right time for it to come.”

Sumi Hoshiko Our Choices: Women’s Personal Decisions about Abortion (New York: Harrington Park Press, 1993)  89

Did her babies really “understand” and accept the fact that they was going to be torn limb from limb in an abortion? Below are graphs of the two most common abortion procedures in the United States (and also very common worldwide)

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If the baby could think and perceive, do you really think he or she would understand and accept their fate?

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Teen has abortion against father’s will

7 week ultrasound. 3/4 of abortions happen at 8 weeks or later, this is under that
7 week ultrasound. 2/3 of abortions happen at 8 weeks or later, this is under that

From a woman named Tracy, who had an abortion against her boyfriend’s wishes.

“He wanted me to keep it… He would beg me to keep it. “Don’t kill it; don’t kill it. That’s my baby,” you know?? This back and forth, back and forth…

Then I got pressure from my family. My aunt said, “Keep it. I’ll take care of it. I’ll keep it and you can go to school.” I’m not going to give you my child, you know? At the time I was staying with my aunt, and she’s a lesbian. So she won’t be having any more kids.… And she has a fairly large house. Financially she’s pretty much stable. And she wants a child, but I guess she would rather have mine. So her and her girlfriend, they want my child. That’s pressure from another end, right? “We could take this room here and we’re going to fix up the nursery.” So it’s like a tug-of-war…

I was 17 at the time and he [the father of her baby] was about 19 or 20. And he was like, “Keep it; I’ll do anything for the child.”…

In the back of my mind, my first reaction was, I am not going to keep this baby… I have all these dreams; my life is going to change. I can’t do the things I want to do. I don’t think I could lead a normal life of being a teenager. I would just miss a whole bunch of things.…

Then, after the abortion, I just didn’t want to see [the father of the baby] anymore. Isn’t that something?”

Sumi Hoshiko Our Choices: Women’s Personal Decisions about Abortion (New York: Harrington Park Press, 1993) 168 – 170

 

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Woman who had abortion: My baby was at peace with it

From Dana, who had an abortion:

“I had established quite a connection with the baby. I thought it was a girl, I had named her, and I had my little relationship going with her. I talked to her all the time. The night before I kind of started this process of talking to her and telling her what was going on. And telling her, asking her how she felt about it. This may sound a little strange. And she understood, and she’s at peace with it, she wasn’t angry. She said to me that we would meet again, that she will come back in my life someday.…

And so [the abortionist] came and gave me a shot. It was a great drug. It was just so perfect. As soon as he gave me the shot, I just wanted to stay with… Like I stayed with her and made sure we were doing it together. So he gave me the shot and I took a deep breath and at the top of my lungs, screamed! [she laughs.] Freaked everyone out! But it felt great.

I said goodbye to her as she was leaving, and our goodbye was beautiful, and we both totally understood and were at peace with it. And that was the most important thing for me. I felt like I had… Like I was with her to the very end. Then I just started sobbing. I just let myself really let go. It wasn’t from fear or anger. Grief, and be in as much pain as I wanted to be in. And when I cried, I’ve never cried as deep before.…. And it felt really good to be screaming, to cry, and just be there with all the pain…

Abortion at 10 weeks. This is what happened to her baby.
Abortion at 10 weeks. This is what happened to her baby.

I hear Jim crying, so I started opening my eyes. And there he was sobbing. Not crying, he was sobbing. I’ve seen him cry before, but he was choking and gasping and sobbing. And it made me feel so good, that he was feeling some pain over it. So we were there crying together for a little while… I was just really glad he was crying like that; then I felt like I wasn’t alone with it.…

I’ve been continuing to grieve when I need to, and allow myself to do that. There’s a part of the [religious] services, that if you want to mourn, you get up and say it. And I’ve been getting up to do that. At that time I picture her in my head, and it’s an opportunity to say hello to her, and so I feel like I’m continuously in contact with her…

Every time like I’m up in an airplane, in a cloud, I kind of see her. It’s a little strange, but I see her, clear as a bell, looking, little blonde Sarah. Sitting up there, happy as can be. She is like my little angel. I talk to her. So I allow myself… By being sad about it once in a while, as I’m continuing to talk with her and keep her a part of my life, it’s kind of evened out the whole grieving, the whole sadness about it. And I know she will come back into my life.”

Sumi Hoshiko Our Choices: Women’s Personal Decisions about Abortion (New York: Harrington Park Press, 1993) 108 – 109, 111

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Abortion is more ethical than letting child be unhappy, says writer

From one pro-choice author:

“True, women are amazing and have tremendous capacity for love, overcoming overwhelming obstacles and, when forced to, changing their lives to provide for children. But when an alternative exists, why not take? It seems logical that when the pregnancy is unwanted or will be an emotional or economic burden on the woman, abortion is clearly a more ethical choice than placing both herself and the child in a desperate or unhappy situation.”

Sumi Hoshiko Our Choices: Women’s Personal Decisions about Abortion (New York: Harrington Park Press, 1993) 3

Is this (abortions at 9 weeks) really more ethical than allowing a child to be unhappy?

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Abortion clinic escort mad at pro-lifers for offering to help woman

From an abortion clinic escort:

The crazy protesters (ie the women) had just arrived though, and once they saw us out back with a young woman who had obviously been crying, one of the crazies (Rosary Lady) started saying, very loudly, “You don’t have to do this,” and such forth. Well, PM very snarkily replied “We’re not.” Rosary Lady then tried to get them to go next door to the “Mother Child Welcome Centre” but PM told her, in an unimpressed tone, that they had already been. That was when their ride showed up. Before they got in the car, PM turned to me and said, in an explanatory way (as if she owed me an explanation!) that Patient was too far along in her pregnancy and that’s why they hadn’t been able to get an abortion.

It was a strange experience. First of all it was the closest I’ve ever come to crying at this job, and secondly I think it’s the maddest I’ve ever been at a protester. She should have stopped her bullshit when she heard that they weren’t going through with it. She’s not having the abortion – what more do you want? Do you have to try to brainwash her as well?

Hail and Bubbles, Part One Anti–choice Is Anti-Awesome April 17, 2007

In fact, most crisis pregnancy centers offer women tangible help with their pregnancies- everything from baby items and diapers to a place to live. This was the help they were offering the woman.

If there is nothing wrong with a woman changing her mind, why was the escort close to tears at a woman not getting an abortion?

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“Cheerleader for abortion” doula describes her job

From an “Abortion doula” who helps women through their abortions:

“Basically, my job is to love people unconditionally in 5-10 minute increments, which is about how long a first-trimester procedure takes. Depending on the clinic that we’re in, we will go into the room with the patient, we’ll help them get settled, get comfortable. Depending how long it takes the doctor to come into the room, we might be making small talk with them. Sometimes, people don’t want to talk at all, which is totally fine. People usually don’t want to talk about their emotions, if they have any, around the procedure, which is also obviously fine. Then, the doctor comes in, the procedure happens, [and] we’re right next to the patient during the procedure, again offering physical support if the client wants that, or verbal support… Then, they go into the recovery room, and that’s pretty much the end of our relationship with that person. …

For a lot of people, the procedure is not a big deal. But…some people are going in with some really conflicted and painful emotions. Sometimes, they wanted a pregnancy, but they just don’t have the resources to continue… A few times, especially with people who are very religious or just really conflicted with the decision, I think it’s been really helpful for them to have someone say “You’re not a bad person, you’re making the right decision, and I care about you.” One of the great things I learned from one of our founders [is that] when people ask her, “Do you think God will forgive me?” she responds, “Well, do you believe in a forgiving God?”

I think care is a basic right, and being loved is a real, universal human need.“

Michelle Kinsey Bruns “Meet The Women Who Make Abortions Possible” Refinery 29 JAN 22, 2015

Unfortunately preborn babies, like the ones below,are not considered people to be loved.

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See what a preborn baby at 16 weeks looks like after an abortion.

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See what a baby aborted at 10 weeks looks like (scroll down)

One can also wonder if this ‘cheerleader for abortion” will be there for the woman days, weeks, months, or years later when they are suicidal because of their abortion.

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Woman asks disturbing question during abortion counseling

From one woman who had an abortion:

“Well, we all sat there and about half the people in the room – I can’t remember how many girls there were, maybe 6 or 7 – were on their 2nd or 3rd time and it didn’t seem to phase them at all…

This one girl – they were asking questions – the only question she had was she said she’d had a couple before and she said it smelled bad afterwards: Was there any way she could get rid of that because her boyfriend didn’t like the smell?”

Sumi Hoshiko Our Choices: Women’s Personal Decisions about Abortion (New York: Harrington Park Press, 1993) 97

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Saying that abortion is “less loving” than giving birth is “demeaning”

Michael S Policar, then VP of Medical Affairs at Planned Parenthood, blurbed the book Our Choices: Women’s Personal Decisions about Abortion by Sumi Hoshiko . He said:

“[Hoshiko] skillfully demonstrates… the demeaning message that is sent to women who choose abortion, implying that their actions are less loving than those women who carry their pregnancies to term.”

Blurb on Sumi Hoshiko Our Choices: Women’s Personal Decisions about Abortion (New York: Harrington Park Press, 1993)

Is this really more loving than carrying to term?

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NARAL president refers to a fetus as “developing life”

Kate Michelman , once Pres. of NARAL, one of the biggest pro-abortion groups in the country, had an abortion early in her life, before she came out of the abortion to be. She says:

“When I did squarely confront abortion as a possibility, it was a very difficult decision…I had to weigh the responsibility I felt for the developing life within me against the moral, maternal, and practical responsibilities of my daughters’ wellbeing. Religious beliefs mingled with the only complete point of clarity in my thinking: It would be impossible to have another child. While the decision was difficult, in the end, the choice was clear.”

Kate Michelman Protecting the Right to Choose (New York: Plume, 2007) 4

She calls the baby she aborted “the developing life.” This was written long after the actual abortion, showing that she knew that abortion kills babies while she was president of the pro-abortion group.

Developing life at 10 1/2 weeks
Developing life at 10 1/2 weeks
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Woman justifies abortion- the unborn baby has no soul

Louise, a woman who had an abortion:

“I firmly believe that the soul does not take possession of the body until after birth. Now, nobody can prove their own theory. Nobody can. But I am as entitled to live according to mine as anybody else is according to theirs.”

Sumi Hoshiko Our Choices: Women’s Personal Decisions about Abortion (New York: Harrington Park Press, 1993) 28

Whether an unborn baby has a “soul” or not (whether the soul even exists) can never be known. You can look at any human being and justify killing them by claiming that”they have no soul.”  The real question should be when human life begins. Life begins at conception. This is not a religious idea but a scientific fact.

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