I know abortion takes life- but I’d have the “world’s greatest abortion”

From a pro-choice activist:

“Here’s the complicated reality in which we live: All life is not equal. That’s a difficult thing for liberals like me to talk about, lest we wind up looking like death-panel-loving, kill-your-grandma-and-your-precious-baby storm troopers. Yet a fetus can be a human life without having the same rights as the woman in whose body it resides. She’s the boss. Her life and what is right for her circumstances and her health should automatically trump the rights of the non-autonomous entity inside of her. Always.

When we on the pro-choice side get cagey around the life question, it makes us illogically contradictory. I have friends who have referred to their abortions in terms of “scraping out a bunch of cells” and then a few years later were exultant over the pregnancies that they unhesitatingly described in terms of “the baby” and “this kid.” I know women who have been relieved at their abortions and grieved over their miscarriages. Why can’t we agree that how they felt about their pregnancies was vastly different, but that it’s pretty silly to pretend that what was growing inside of them wasn’t the same? Fetuses aren’t selective like that. They don’t qualify as human life only if they’re intended to be born….

It seems absurd to suggest that the only thing that makes us fully human is the short ride out of some lady’s vagina. That distinction may apply neatly legally, but philosophically, surely we can do better. Instead, we let right-wingers perpetuate the sentimental fiction that no one with a heart — and certainly no one who’s experienced the wondrous miracle of family life — can possibly resist tiny fingers and tiny toes growing inside a woman’s body…

If by some random fluke I learned today I was pregnant, you bet your ass I’d have an abortion. I’d have the World’s Greatest Abortion.”

first trimester
first trimester

Mary Elizabeth Williams “So What If Abortion Ends Life?Salon January 23, 2013

 

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Joseph Fletcher describes a “person”

Joseph Fletcher, abortion advocate and professor at the University of Virginia:

An “individual” is not a “person” unless he has an IQ of at least 40, is self-aware, has self-control, with a sense of time (past, present, and future) and an ability to relate to others.

Joseph Fletcher, Situation Ethics: The New Morality, cited by Mark O’Keefe, “Personhood: When Does It Begin…or End?” Oregonian, 12 February 1995, Bl.

This would mean that newborn babies were not people, justifying not just abortion, but infanticide.

not a person (?) 7 months in the womb
not a person (?) 7 months in the womb
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Abortion kills a human being- but there’s no need to be morally troubled

At conception comes a new human being.

Abortion, then, involves the killing of a human being. But that abortion involves the deliberate killing of a human being is no reason for abortion to be illegal. Nor should one be morally troubled by it….

From an article in the Ottawa Citizen

Pro-Abort Professor: Abortion Involves Deliberate Killing? That’s Still Not A Reason To Be Morally Troubled.” Stand Your Ground MAY 6, 2010

 

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A woman seeking abortion is aware what’s in her womb, says prochoicer

Pro-Abortion writer Kathleen Reeves, on an informed consent bill:

“ I think we can be pretty sure that a woman about to have an abortion is aware of what’s inside her womb. And in case she’s not, the doctors who counsel her before the abortion are perfectly capable of telling her….

The legislators behind these bills are arrogant in assuming they have something to say to a woman about her “womb.” There’s no doubt that, as a woman, it’s hard to predict how you’ll feel after an abortion. But an image of the fetus sheds no light on the decision and adds nothing to the emotional process. On the other hand, having a cadre of politicians take this image by force does add something to the experience: the sense of having been intimidated, assumed stupid, and even violated. “

Kathleen Reeves “Ultrasound Before Abortion: A Wasteful Bullying Tactic” RH Reality Check February 11, 2009

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Abortion for happier families

“And what of the children of unwanted pregnancies? Many are born to single mothers or families that are scarcely able to support them. Many others are victims of abuse or neglect. …

We do not mean to callously suggest that these children would have been better off if they had never been born. What we do mean to say is that if every woman had a choice about whether to allow each embryo to develop into a child, we would have better social services and happier families.”

Colin McSwiggen, Fatima Hussain “Opinion: A fundamental right for women” The Tech Nov 5 2010

To abort because a baby may be abused is illogical, as abortion itself is child abuse.  To brutally tear apart a baby because he or she may not live in a “happy family” is wrong.

aborted at 10 weeks
aborted at 10 weeks
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Abortion as a moral, caring act

Pro-choice writer Joyce Arthur says the following in her essay “Know Your Enemy” (Pro-Choice Action Network)

“It [Abortion] means valuing quality of life over quantity of life. Access to legal, safe abortion is a blessing, because it benefits women, families, and society…. To choose not to give birth when there’s little foundation for that child’s well-being is a moral and caring act.”

In the world of many pro-choicers, abortion is an act of kindness because it spares an unborn baby suffering. There is no reference to the suffering the unborn baby may go through during an abortion.

10 weeks
10 weeks
10 weeks
10 weeks

Do these pictures show a moral, caring act?

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Woman thinks she contacted baby’s soul, he wanted to be aborted

A woman who thought her baby might be disabled had an abortion. She says she connected with the baby’s “soul” and that the child was happy with being aborted.

I still couldn’t come to terms with it, so I went to see a Reiki master and spiritual healer – I felt there was no one else to turn to for impartial advice; all my family and friends were emotionally involved.

I asked if the healer’s spirit guide could connect with the foetus. She said she had a very strong sense that the baby wasn’t 100 per cent perfect and that he was happy to go to the other side, but would be back again soon.

Immediately I felt enormously relieved because I’d been feeling so guilty. …

Twelve weeks pregnant, I returned to my GP who sent me to hospital. I couldn’t bear to look at the scan, but the nurse let slip that my baby was a boy… I didn’t have to go through any counselling. But the only way I got through the termination was knowing that the spirit of my foetus had forgiven me and that he was going to come back.”

Below is a picture of a baby aborted at 12 weeks. This is what happened to her baby.

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Woman has affair, aborts baby

One woman told her story:

“I’VE got no qualms about having had an abortion. I did it for the right reasons. The father was a married policeman which was far from socially acceptable, and I don’t believe I’d be the successful businesswoman I am today if I’d had a baby at 21. …

18 weeks. This is what her baby looked like before the abortion
18 weeks. This is what her baby looked like before the abortion

At 18 weeks gone, there was no time to mess around with making a decision.

But from the outset, I looked at things very calmly and rationally. I didn’t want a child because I was far too young and I knew the man I was with, who was ten years older than me, would not support me.

I came home and discussed it with my parents, who were both level-headed, too. They didn’t know I was having an affair with a married man and I didn’t volunteer the information, so they advised me to consider all my options.

But my mind was made up and I went ahead with a termination two days later without discussing it with the baby’s father. I didn’t see the point. The only thing I was worried about when I arrived at my local hospital was having a general anaesthetic. I was scared I wouldn’t wake up.

I told the policeman a couple of days later. At first, he didn’t believe me.

To prove it I had to show him a referral letter from my GP. He was shocked and insisted he pay for the abortion even though I’d had it done for free on the NHS.

I remember him coming to my office and handing over [pounds sterling]300, which was pretty surreal. That was a lot of money in those days, so my parents put it in a savings account for me.

The termination didn’t affect our affair. We carried on going out for another two years.”

NATASHA PEARLMAN; JENNY NISBET “ABORTION: THE LEGACY” The Daily Mail July 27, 2006 42.

Abortions at this stage are done by D&E. here is a chart showing how it’s done:

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Woman aborts disabled baby

From a woman who had an abortion:

This was the baby my husband and I had longed for, but I also felt very strongly about bringing a disabled child into the world. I used to work with disabled children and I decided long ago that if I could prevent it, I wouldn’t want a child of mine to experience such a difficult life.

They are human beings and will want to fall in love, get married, have children of their own. I didn’t want to be so selfish in my desire for a baby that I would deny my child the right to all those things.

Remains of baby aborted at 18 weeks
Remains of baby aborted at 18 weeks

When the doctor confirmed the baby wasn’t developing properly, there was no doubt in my mind what I had to do.

I spent the few days before the termination saying goodbye to the baby.

There was one night in particular where I felt very at peace. I don’t know if the baby was speaking to me or not, but I felt connected to him – I’m sure it was a he – and felt as though he knew I loved him and was doing what was best for him.

Despite the circumstances, my termination, under general anaesthetic, was painless and smooth and I’m glad I don’t have any memory of it.

I am a spiritual person and I do believe my boy will come back to me. When the time is right, I’ll fall pregnant again. And next time, I hope I will have the chance to meet him. But nothing about my decision to have an abortion was easy.

NATASHA PEARLMAN; JENNY NISBET “ABORTION: THE LEGACY” The Daily Mail July 27, 2006 42.

The abortion may have been painless for the mother, but not for the baby. Ultrasounds usually cannot pick up fetal anomolies until the second trimester so this was most likely a late term abortion, like the one above.

 

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Abortion book warns against prolifers showing images

Abortion: The Essential Guide is a publication written for women who are considering abortion. It purports to be unbiased, but in fact sugar coats much of the abortion procedure. It also tries to prevent women from getting the pro-life message. The book says:

“Some antiabortion (or “pro-life”) groups publish books and websites to influence women’s decisions, claiming to offer information back to try to dissuade the readers from having abortions. There are also groups describing themselves as “counseling services,” which aim to prevent women from choosing abortion.

Groups opposed to abortion may try to influence a woman’s decision using:

Illustrations of fetuses or abortions taking place – an impartial group will never show you images unless you ask.…

Fetal images of late pregnancy, suggesting this is what early pregnancy looks like

Johanna Payton Abortion: The Essential Guide (Need2Know, October 16th 2012) Kindle edition

Why is it so important for pro-choicers to make sure women considering abortion don’t see fetal images?

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