Abortion counselor scolds teen for crying, tells her “the fetus isn’t human”

What one postabortion teenager says her abortion counselor told her when she asked her about God:

“God’s not going to do anything. He’ll forgive you if that’s your issue. Really, it’s not wrong because the fetus isn’t human. You’re six weeks pregnant, and you need to make a decision now.”

The teen began crying before her abortion and was told:

“What’s wrong with you? Who told you about the procedure for terminating a pregnancy? Has someone been telling you this is wrong? It’s no big deal. It only takes about three minutes and that’s it. Three minutes and it’s over. Why are you crying?”

She did go through with the abortion and later regretted it.

Julia C Loren The Note on the Mirror: Pregnant Teenagers Tell Their Stories (Grand Rapids, Michigan: Zondervan Publishing House, 1990) 62, 63

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Researcher: Graphic photos of preborn babies are the “Achilles Heel” of pro-choice laws

In his book about abortion, Gene Burns wrote:

“Even those who do not accept that babies are killed during abortions know that, politically, graphic images of fetuses that bring to mind babies are the Achilles’ heel of attempts to liberalize abortion laws. To the extent that there is discomfort with abortion among the general population, concerns about the relationship of abortion to babies is clearly the reason.”

Gene Burns The Moral Veto: Framing Contraception, Abortion, and Cultural Pluralism in the United States (New York: Cambridge University Press, 2005) 24

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Margaret Sanger on charity and the “unfit”

Margaret Sanger was discussing “relief”, i.e. charity towards the poor.

“Relief, by its very nature is not conservation [of the race]. It may serve a destructive purpose, first by keeping alive the most unfit and encouraging them by federal, state and local aid to multiply their kind.”

Margaret Sanger “Human Conservation and Birth Control” address delivered at Conference on Conservation and Development of Human Resources, Washington DC, March 3, 1938, MSP–SS, p 5

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Christian woman who had abortion: “I can never forgive myself”`

One young woman, who was a devout Christian when she became pregnant outside of marriage, wrote about her abortion:

“I remember beating on my stomach and yelling furiously at God. “Take this baby… There isn’t a baby in me… Lord why would you scorn me by giving me another child… What have I done so wrong to be punished like this?” I hated myself! I believed God hated me too…

I hid from the church. To me, there was not enough room for a sinner like me. I had already brought enough shame on to my family. Why go to the church of saints and have them pray for someone surely going to hell? I believed this was Satan’s way of cursing me and I thought that God had allowed me to fall. The only thing I could think of doing to resolve this problem was to get an abortion…

They laid me on the table to give me an ultrasound… Had I heard a heartbeat I would’ve gotten up and ran out of that building. But the machine did not have sound. I could’ve opted to take this pill to abort at home but I did not. I guess I was already ashamed, why agitate the situation by having to look at the child I killed…

I opted to not get painkillers or any anesthesia. I wanted to feel all the pain my baby was going through. I wanted to remember that moment. To always think about it when I decided to have premarital sex.

I went into another room. The nurse told me to pull my bottoms off and place a paper sheet over me. The doctor came in to talk to me for a short while (another possible escape). They said, “There will be pressure.” The machine came on and instantly I wanted to cry. The nurse held my hand. … I did not feel much pain, that is until I saw the glass jar the doctor tried to hide. It was filled with my baby…

I know God gives us grace for our actions and choices. I however, can never forgive myself!”

LaDina Anderson Killing Grace: A Rise to Restoration (2016) Kindle edition

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Experience of abortion gives rise to “mourning” says study of teens who had abortions

From a study on adolescents’ reactions to abortion:

“The loss of a potential child by abortion gives rise to the universal experience of mourning, in which adolescents are developmentally more vulnerable…. Because strong cultural and religious taboos exist, aspects of traumatic grief are sometimes ignored….

The adolescents described feelings of guilt, shame, secrecy, or confusion that clarified how the social stigma of abortion was reinforced in the high school setting. American adolescents are more likely to disapprove of abortion because they tend to respond in absolute terms to moral issues. Stone and Waszak’s study (1992) demonstrated that adolescents’ first association to abortion was “killing the baby” ….

The group members in our study indicated they felt guilty when they were seen entering the abortion clinic, a feeling exacerbated by protesters who were sometimes encountered outside the clinic. Classroom discussions that condemned abortion also made the adolescents feel uncomfortable and guilty….

The socially based negative emotions of guilt, shame, and fear of disapproval were still noted in these group participants, even 40 years after the U.S. Supreme Court affirmed women’s right to choose, offering some societal acceptance of this choice. These feelings of guilt and shame, along with the shock and trauma of the pregnancy, can prevent adolescents from incorporating the experience of abortion into a learning experience because the defense of denial is used. This denial may cause a repetition of the shameful experience….

Some group members shared that they talked to the fetus and said, “I’m sorry,” to the fetus.”

Daly, Joan Ziegler, ACSW; Ziegler, Robert, MD; Goldstein, Donna J, RN, CPNP “Adolescent Postabortion Groups” Journal of Psychosocial Nursing & Mental Health Services; Thorofare Vol. 42, Iss. 10,  (Oct 2004): 48-54.

Other study it cited was:

Stone, R., & Waszak, C. (1992). Adolescent knowledge and attitudes about abortion. Family Phnning Perspectives, 24, 52-57

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Mother of two children with down syndrome: “it’s a beautiful journey”

Ashley Engele, a mom of two whose oldest child has Down syndrome, found out that she was pregnant with her third baby, who also had downs. She chose life. Her first child,  Rilynn, is now 4 1/2 years old:

“Rilynn is just like any other precocious 4-year-old girl. She goes to preschool, loves Trolls, Barbie dolls and her “typical” younger sister. They are best friends, they love each other fiercely, and also have the classic sibling rivalry. We fight over what outfit she’s going to wear, or how she’s going to wear her hair for the day. Most of all, she loves other kids and babies. ….

We know how when we’re having a bad day, one smile from Rilynn can completely turn it around.

We know the extra-squishy hugs that turn our hearts into mush.

We know that when her cute little hands reach out and touch your cheek, you instantly feel better.

We know how she is changing the perception of those with Down syndrome, one person at a time.

If you’ve ever met our daughter, you know she doesn’t lack personality. She can make even the grumpiest or angriest people smile and win their hearts over in an instant.

You see, Down syndrome has shown us a whole new world, a whole new deeper level of love, compassion, and patience.”

After her third child was diagnosed in utero:

“Down syndrome is a beautiful journey we had never planned on, but would never dream of leaving because we know what it’s like. We treasure our experiences at face value, we slow down and enjoy the little moments in life, we celebrate every single milestone (big or small), and most of all, we celebrate life, because our lives are better with Down syndrome in it.”

ASHLEY ENGELE “Woman expecting 2nd baby with Down syndrome opens up about her experience” ABC News Oct 30, 2017

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Rape survivor on rape-conceived children and mothers

Jennifer Christie is a mother from rape. She says:

“People will tell you that a raped woman who conceives will feel rage and anger and disgust toward her baby. And I’ve spoken to hundreds and hundreds of women, and that is just not true.”

Kelli “Rape survivor says son, conceived in rape, is proof that ‘good can come from evil’” Live Action News December 18, 2018

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Abortionist: some abortionists are Christians and pray with the women

From a video interview with an abortionist:

“One of the things I’ve discovered, particularly in working in the southeast, is there are providers who identify themselves as Christian and actually bring their Christianity into the space of abortion. Some providers actually pray with individuals….”

The abortionist says she likes to tell her patients:

“This is a safe place. I’m here to support you.”

ATTN Video, shared on Facebook March 10, 2018

Aborto a las 10 semanas
Hand from a baby aborted at 10 weeks after conception
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Arkansas Gazette: pro-lifers don’t want to eradicate cancer

A pro-choice reporter in the Arkansas Gazette came up with this gem:

“The militant antiabortionists would rather wipe out abortion than cancer.”

Arkansas Gazette, November 26, 1990

Quoted in Oliver Trager Abortion: Choice & Conflict (New York: Facts on File, 1993) 178

Because, obviously, wanting to save a baby like the one below means we love cancer.

Seven week-old preborn baby
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1.6 million abortions were performed every year in the 1980s

In the 1980s, abortion was more common than it is today. One source in 1989 wrote:

“It is indisputable that abortion has become embedded in American society. Some 1.6 million abortions are performed each year; thus, 30% of all pregnancies in this country are voluntarily terminated. This places the United States near the top of industrialized nations in the percentage of aborted pregnancies. In Canada, the figure is 14%. In the Soviet Union, where contraceptive technology is often ineffective and not widely available, the rate soars to 68% of pregnancies.”

The San Diego Union – Tribune, May 7, 1989

Quoted in Oliver Trager Abortion: Choice & Conflict (New York: Facts on File, 1993) 15

The many pro-life laws enacted since 1989 may play a role in the decreased number of abortions committed today.

Preborn baby at 7-8 weeks after conception, 9-10 weeks LMP
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