52% of women show up at abortion clinic undecided

A book that instructs abortion clinic workers in how to counsel  women before their abortions and help them decide what to do cites a study that shows:

48% of women who showed up at the abortion facility had already made a clear decision as to whether to have an abortion- they were sure of their choice to abort

32% were ambivalent about having an abortion

20% were unprepared to make a decision and needed more time

MJ Hare and J. Hayward “Counselling of women seeking abortion” Journal of Biological Science 1981 13: 269-271

From the book:

“This leaves an estimated 52% that could benefit from counseling.”

Joanna Brien, Ida Fairbairn Pregnancy and Abortion Counseling (London: Routledge, 1996) 55

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Textbook on abortion counseling talks about women’s conflicts

In a textbook intended to train abortion clinic counselors, the author identifies sources of women’s conflict over having abortions.

Conflict with an abortion decision

Emotional conflict

¡  I’m never going to forgive myself.

¡  I’m going to miss the baby after it’s gone.

Spiritual conflict

¡  Will God forgive me? Is abortion a sin?

¡  I’m worried about what God is thinking about me.

Moral conflict

¡  I think abortion is murder but I still have to have one.

The book identifies the following as something a woman might say:

 ”Patient: [crying] I feel like I’m killing my baby.”

ALISSA PERRUCCI, PHD “Decision assessment and counseling in abortion care” MPH WOMEN’S OPTIONS CENTER SAN FRANCISCO GENERAL HOSPITAL FIAPAC OCTOBER 3, 2014

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Abortion counseling manual instructs clinic worker to call abortion “loving”

In a book intended to teach abortion clinic workers how to counsel women, it gives the following as a sample conversation between a woman considering abortion and her counselor at the clinic:

Counselor: …having an abortion does not mean that you have bad feelings toward the baby. Deciding when it is the right time to bring a baby into the world is a caring, loving decision.

Patient: [crying] Thank you for saying that

Counselor: I hear in what you’re saying a lot of care and compassion toward this baby, your kids, and yourself. That says something about you as a person.”

ALISSA PERRUCCI, PHD “Decision assessment and counseling in abortion care” MPH WOMEN’S OPTIONS CENTER SAN FRANCISCO GENERAL HOSPITAL FIAPAC OCTOBER 3, 2014

Here is a picture of an aborted child. Did this baby’s mother do this to him out of love?

week 10
week 10
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They wouldn’t let me see the ultrasound

One woman named Mary who had an abortion says:

“They [clinic workers] don’t go into specific detail. I think that would scare you and you would back out. I also was not allowed to see the screen during the ultrasound and they did not share the results with me. The pain I endured from the time the dilation began and then through the actual procedure was alarming and VERY unexpected.”

Amicus brief submitted in the Supreme Court case WHOLE WOMAN’S HEALTH v. HELLERSTEDT,

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She saw her aborted child’s head

Lorijo Nerad, 28, Michigan-based national president of Women Exploited by Abortion (WEBA), told her abortion story:

“If I knew what I know now, I never would have had my abortion. I thought it was the only way out. I was 18 years old…My husband was unemployed…and we were on welfare. The caseworker thought I was irresponsible. She called Planned Parenthood and made an appointment for me to have an abortion. I was scared to death they were going to cut off our payments. I talked it over with my husband and he said, “Choose. It’s either me or the baby.” I felt trapped, scared and alone.

I was almost three months pregnant when I had the abortion. I was given a pamphlet that showed a drawing of a little blob of jelly inside of a womb and I thought, “Oh great, that’s what it looks like. I’ll go for that.” They didn’t inform me of the development of the child, and there was no discussion about the emotional or psychological problems.

My obstetrician did the abortion in the hospital. I had no anesthesia, no local, no tranquilizers. I lay there on the table and cried. A sheet was draped across me, and the doctor wiped pieces of the baby on it. Two weeks later I was in severe pain, just horrible. I went to the bathroom and there, in the toilet paper in my hand was my baby’s head—a little bit smaller than a golf ball and all black and tarry. They hadn’t removed it during the abortion. I called the doctor, and he said it was normal, throw it away, no big deal.”

MARILYN BALAMACI, et. al. “Eight Other Women’s Stories” People Magazine August 05, 1985

 

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Abortion clinic worker: It felt like an assembly line

A clinic worker at Northern Women’s Clinic, a privately owned abortion clinic in New England said:

“We began to feel we were on an assembly line. You have no real contact with the whole woman… One person prepped her, one took tests, one did counseling… We couldn’t give the abortion patient enough time. When we really tried to get into people’s feelings about the abortion, the management ridiculed us.”

Carole Joffe The Regulation of Sexuality: Experiences of Family-Planning Workers (Philadelphia: Temple University Press, 1986) 111

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Director of Planned Parenthood praises illegal abortionists

Malcolm Potts, a former director of the International Planned Parenthood Federation:

“The illegal abortionist has played an essential role in the evolution of modern industrial urban living, with its low birth rates, intensive education, and nuclear family system. He or she was classed as a criminal, but without their help, history would have taken a different course.”

Malcolm Potts, Peter Diggory and John Peel. Abortion. (Cambridge University Press, 1970)

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British woman discovers abortion is killing when her baby survives abortion attempt

A woman named Margaret tells the story of her abortions. and how her daughter was born:

“The first time I was 26 and involved with a married colleague, and after three months I found out that I was pregnant.

At first I thought I was having a child with the man I loved, but when he came back with the news he was going to get back with his wife, that’s when it changed from being a baby to a problem.

I didn’t think I could cope. There were emotional influences, being ashamed, telling my parents that I was pregnant, and having to leave work.

I was feeling fear and panic. I was reacting to a crisis and I had never had a crisis like that in my life.

My life was out of control and I wanted to get back to normal.

I went to the British Pregnancy Advice Service for counselling. I asked if at ten weeks it was a baby and they said, ‘No, it’s just cells.”

But nine years later there was an almost repeat – I met a guy at work and I didn’t know he was married.

The second time we went out we had intercourse and I took the risk of unprotected sex as I thought as an older woman I couldn’t possibly become pregnant.

But I did. Two weeks later I realised and had that same feeling of panic, I couldn’t believe I was back in this crisis.

I had an abortion, but ten weeks later my period hadn’t come back, I went back to the doctor who said I was still pregnant.

They sent me for a scan and that is when my denial ended. When I saw that baby with its heart beating, I knew that nine years ago I had destroyed a baby.

Before my daughter was born four months later I was worried how I would love it, but when she was born the feelings were just amazing.

I realised that I had been reacting out of fear and not really thinking. I was in denial: ‘It wasn’t really a baby but cells.’

Women deserve more than abortion in a crisis. There are other options, why should the death of a baby be the only answer?”

Abortion stories: Relief and regretBBC News 24 October 2007

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Woman describes her experience at abortion clinic

Victoria, who compiled a book of women’s stories about about abortion, wrote:

“I telephoned the clinic and was told by the clinic that because I was so early in my pregnancy, I wasn’t carrying a “real” baby. Her exact words were, “it’s just a blob of cells. “It” hasn’t formed into a human being.”

6 week preborn baby
6 week preborn baby. Surgical abortions are not performed before this time in many clinics

The woman on the other end insisted that I have the “procedure” performed right away, the sooner, the better. She always referred to it as the “procedure” never mentioning the word abortion. She said I was only “terminating a pregnancy.

She instructed me to bring cash only to my visit. Checks or credit cards were not accepted.”

At the clinic:

“When my fictitious name was called, I quickly got up and went into the first of three rooms. This was the office of the cashier. She sat me down, shut the door and matter-of-factly asked, “You have your money with you?… I need the full $350, cash only, as I told you over the phone. Remember, if you change your mind while you’re on the table, you don’t get your money back. There are no refunds here. Do you understand this? I nodded again…

I asked again, “Should I really do this?” She seemed nervous. Maybe I was about to change my mind and she wouldn’t make her “quota” for the day.

I guess she wanted to reassure me when she said, “Look, when you leave this place, never think of this day again. Just forget about it. You’ll be fine and you can always have more babies later. You’re too early in your pregnancy to even think of this as a real pregnancy, let alone a real baby. Remember and never forget, we’re only terminating a pregnancy.”…

It was obvious she’d done this before. Her “speech” was so rehearsed…

They asked me not to speak to any of the other women. It might be too uncomfortable for them… We were all sharing the same fate, yet none of us could even look at one another.”

Victoria Koloff They Lied to Us (Worldcomm: 2011) 11 – 13

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Woman has trauma, two miscarriages after abortion

Asked if the abortion facility told her about the emotional and physical risks of abortion, a post-abortion woman named Stella said:

“No. [They] did not explain the emotional trauma post abortion. Small counseling afterward but did not explain damage done to my body or soul. I also had two miscarriages because of scar tissue.”

AMICUS CURIAE BRIEF OF 3,348 WOMEN INJURED BY ABORTION AND THE JUSTICE FOUNDATION IN SUPPORT OF RESPONDENTS FOR AFFIRMANCE

WHOLE WOMAN’S HEALTH, et al., Petitioners, v. JOHN HELLERSTEDT, M.D., COMMISSIONER, TEXAS DEPARTMENT OF STATE HEALTH SERVICES, et al., Respondents.

 

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