Category Archives: Men and Abortion

Postabortion father: It’s not a fetus, it’s my son

Researcher Arthur Shostak wrote a book about men and abortion. He interviewed countless men in abortion clinic waiting rooms as well as many years after their partners had abortions. When interviewing one man, Shostak asked him about the “fetus.” Then: “The … Continue reading

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Abortions against the husband’s will poison marriage

From one man: “Eight years into our marriage, my wife became pregnant with our fourth baby. I was so excited and happy about the soon to come new addition to our family. Three weeks after the announcement of her pregnancy, … Continue reading

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Father fails to stop abortion, mourns the loss of his aborted child

A man who got his girlfriend pregnant saw his baby on the ultrasound screen at a crisis pregnancy center:  “Our child was at 8 weeks gestation and had fingers, toes, eyes, everything. I saw and heard my child’s heart beat … Continue reading

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Father of aborted baby sees his child

Cecilia, 33, who had an abortion: “My boyfriend came with me. He was in the room when they did it. He saw the fetus and it really flipped him out. What I remember poignantly about the whole experience was I … Continue reading

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Men sometimes suffer from abortion even when women don’t

One researcher who worked with postabortion men said: “Men are confused when their partners are okay with having had an abortion, but they themselves are depressed, guilty, grieving or shame filled.” A. Torre-Bueno Peace after Abortion (San Diego, California: Pimpernel … Continue reading

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Postabortion father suffers “guilt” and “regret”

From a man who fathered two babies that were aborted:: “I have twice experienced having pregnancies terminated for which I have been responsible.… I have felt since a terrific sense of guilt and regret. The first abortion occurred with a … Continue reading

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Father tells story of his aborted son to persuade others not to abort

Patrick B Keefe wrote a book about the abortion he encouraged his wife to have over 20 years ago. He grieves for his child and wants others to know how painful abortion is for fathers. He says: “Get an abortion, … Continue reading

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Postabortion father: it broke my heart

The father of an aborted baby speaks out: “I once fathered a baby by a woman I truly loved in what was the most beautiful experience I have ever had, and of which until that moment I did not think … Continue reading

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Postabortion father: I think about the baby every day

A man named Matthew told the following story: “In early 1975, when I was 20, I fell in love with a girl who was two years my senior. …. I had had relationships with girls before… but this was the … Continue reading

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Men sometimes weep when women go in for abortions

“The Project Rachel office in College Park is in the same building as an abortion mill. In fact, says Julia Shelava “At their College Park office, she said, they often see men in the waiting area while their girlfriend is … Continue reading

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