I Knew It Was a Life

Creator of “The Abortion Diaries” and pro-choice activist Penny Lane is quoted saying, in an article in Salon Magazine:

“Most of the abortions in America are about convenience. People need to accept abortion for what it is: a valid part of the reproductive spectrum. I want it to be seen as normal; if 1.3 million women in this country have one every year, it’s gotta be normal.”

But later in the same article she says:

“I remember feeling conflicted about the magic of being pregnant. I felt electricity running through my body. Not for a minute did I not think of it as a life. I knew it was a baby.”

Salon.com, “The A-word” November 20, 2004 Found here

9-10 weeks. First trimester
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Supporting a Woman’s Right to Choose

British Abortion activist Eileen Fairweather is quoted saying:

“…It is possible for people to support a woman’s right to choose whether they believe that abortion is killing or not.”

Quoted in Leslie Cannold “The Abortion Myth: Feminism, Morality and the Hard Choices Women Make” (Middletown, Connecticut: Wesleyan University Press, 1998)  xviii

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Abortion Is about Ending a Life

Australian pro-choice writer Karen Kissane is quoted saying:

“Any woman who has felt a baby stir inside her [and] any man who has seen the tiny heart pulsing on an ultrasound screen knows that abortion is about ending a life.”

Quoted in Leslie Cannold “The Abortion Myth: Feminism, Morality and the Hard Choices Women Make” (Middletown, Connecticut: Wesleyan University Press, 1998) p xvii-xviii.

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Having No Choice but to Abort a Baby

Pro-choice author and creator of the “I had an abortion” T-shirt campaign quoted the following in her book “Abortion & Life”:

“Every woman who is pregnant wonders if she has a bedroom for that child; can she afford to take off the time to raise that child? … When women don’t have jobs or health care, where is the choice? There is nothing worse than a woman aborting a baby she wanted because she couldn’t support it.”

Loretta Ross, a pro-choice activist and national coordinator of SisterSong: Women of Color Reproductive Health Collective.

It is very commendable that Ross is advocating for better services for pregnant women and their families. Feminists for Life has been doing that for years, and now, finally, members of the pro-choice community are seeing the need as well, and recognizing that a woman coerced into aborting her baby by life circumstances is a bad thing. However, it is disturbing that Ross has no problem referring to the unborn “fetus” as a “child” and a “baby”- but still finds it acceptable to kill him or her.

Jennifer Baumgardner “Abortion & Life” (New York, NY: Akashic Books, 2008)  67

 

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Pro-Choice Problems with the Word “Baby”

Pro-choice author and creator of the “I Had an Abortion” t-shirt project Jennifer Baumgardner describes an incident when she was speaking to a pro-choice group while she herself was pregnant:

“Along those lines, I had my own moment of truth during my fifth month of pregnancy in May 2004. A small moment, but it changed me. I was speaking to a group from Barnard’s College Students for Choice when I referred to the object in one’s uterus when one is pregnant as a “baby.”

A nurse practitioner who was speaking after me interrupted “Fetus, you mean. You said baby, but it’s a fetus.”

“Oh, right,” I stammered, blushing. “Oops.” I felt foolish, caught in an ignorant mistake. Later, though, I realized that I had always thought of my pregnancy as carrying a baby- that was the word I wanted to use- and I was forcing myself to say “fetus” out of fear. …I thought of other phrases that I forced myself to use too, like “so-called partial birth abortion” and “antichoice.” These phrases suddenly struck me as legal jargon, words in the service of arguments that weren’t themselves always meaningful. Suppressing language, policing ourselves so we don’t slip up and say “baby” continues the split between our politics and our lives.”

Jennifer Baumgardner “Abortion & Life” (New York, NY: Akashic Books, 2008) p 59-60

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Abortion Terminates Life, Says Pro-Choice Author

From feminist and pro-choice author Kathleen McDonnell:

“Abortion is in some sense an act of violence, and indisputably results in the termination of a life.”

Kathleen McDonnell “Not An Easy Choice: A Feminist Re-examines Abortion” (Second Story Press) 2003

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Pro-Choice Feminist: Of Course It’s a Baby

From the essay “Our Bodies, Our Souls” by feminist author Naomi Wolf OCTOBER 16, 1995 THE NEW REPUBLIC

“It was when I was four months pregnant, sick as a dog, and in the middle of an argument, that I realized I could no longer tolerate the fetus-is-nothing paradigm of the pro-choice movement. I was being interrogated by a conservative, and the subject of abortion rights came up. “You’re four months pregnant,” he said. “Are you going to tell me that’s not a baby you’re carrying?”

The accepted pro-choice response at such a moment in the conversation is to evade: to move as swiftly as possible to a discussion of “privacy” and “difficult personal decisions” and “choice.” Had I not been so nauseated and so cranky and so weighed down with the physical gravity of what was going on inside me, I might not have told what is the truth for me. “Of course it’s a baby,” I snapped. And went rashly on: “And if I found myself in circumstances in which I had to make the terrible decision to end this life, then that would be between myself and God.”

Startlingly to me, two things happened: the conservative was quiet, I had said something that actually made sense to him. And I felt the great relief that is the grace of long-delayed honesty.”

To read the essay in its entirety, go here

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Faye Wattleton On Unborn Babies

Curiously, former Planned Parenthood president Faye Wattleton admits that the unborn are alive in her book:

“There are many sperm cells in the [seminal] fluid. If one of them meet an egg cell inside the mother, new life can begin to grow… if one of your friends is pregnant, ask her to let your child feel the baby move… a baby grows in a special place inside the mother, called the uterus — not in her stomach. In nine months, it is born…”

Faye Wattleton, “How to Talk to your child about Sexuality” (Garden City, New York: Doubleday Inc., 1986

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We Have Dealt in Euphemism

“We – in the states – have dealt heavily, up to now, in euphemism. I think one of the reasons why the “good guys” – the people in favor of abortion rights – lost a lot of ground is that we have been unwilling to talk to women about what it means to abort a baby.

We don’t ever talk about babies, we don’t ever talk about what is being decided in abortion. We never talk about responsibility. The word “choice” is the biggest euphemism.

Some use the phrases “products of conception” and “contents of the uterus,” or exchange the word “pregnancy” for the word “fetus.” I think this is a mistake tactically and strategically, and I think it’s wrong…

It is morally and ethically wrong to do abortions without acknowledging what it means to do them.

I performed abortions, I have had an abortion and I am in favor of women having abortions when we choose to do so.

But we should never disregard the fact that being pregnant means there is a baby growing inside of a woman, a baby whose life is ended. We ought not to pretend this is not happening.”

Judith Arcana “Feminist Politics and Abortion in the US” Pro-Choice Forum (Psychology and Reproductive Choice) Sponsored by The Society for the Psychology of Women. here

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The Day I Became Pro-Life

A former medical student writes the following:

“Don, I want you to go down to the OB-GYN this morning. They’re doing an abortion and I want you to go see it.”

My first thought after getting these directions from my nursing instructor was: Why me? I could remember asking previously to be present at a live birth if the opportunity presented itself, but I had no desire to see an abortion.

But I went. I was in my final semester of nursing school. It has been a long grind. I wasn’t going to make any waves at this point.

It was 1975 and I was not the fervent pro-lifer that I am today. Fact was, I hadn’t given the subject of abortion much thought. Looking back, it seems inconceivable that I, a conservative Christian, would be so unconcerned. Was my attitude sexist? Did I view abortion as a “woman’s problem” that had nothing to do with me?

Perhaps. But I do know this: What I saw that day has stayed with me 23 years, and it will stay with me until I go to my grave.

One scene in particular is as vivid today as on that May morning in 1975. It is with me always, both on a conscious level and in my dreams: a little hand….a little rib cage.

“We’ve given her a general [anesthetic]. She’s about 11 weeks, so a dilatation and suction will be all that’s necessary.” The physician spoke very matter-of-factly as he sat on a stool between the stirrupped and draped legs of his patient. He obviously was very familiar with the procedure. He continued: “We’re going to keep her longer this time. Last time, she nearly exsanguinated on the way home.”

I looked at the assisting nurse. She nearly bled to death last time? This isn’t her first abortion?

The doctor continued talking in his disinterested monotone, and I watched as the contents of the woman’s womb came through a suctioning device and into a stainless-steel pail sitting at his feet. I stepped back and wiped the perspiration from my brow. “This is kind of gruesome,” I said. “Was there some special reason she didn’t want to have her baby?”

“She wanted an abortion,” the nurse replied, “and we’re required by law to do what she wants.”

The doctor had been listening to our conversation. As he stood up, he said, “At this point in the pregnancy, the products of conception aren’t much.” I knew the emphasis on “products of conception” was for my benefit.

Is that what you have in that pail? I thought. Does that make it easier for you? I did not have the courage to put into words what I was thinking. I’ve always regretted that.

I stepped forward and peered into the pail. This time I broke out in a cold sweat. Dear Jesus! I thought. I just saw someone murdered! And I just stood and watched! Why did I come down here? How will I ever put this out of my mind?

“Are you OK?” the voice of the nurse brought me back.

“I’m sorry,” I smiled weakly. “I just never realized what it was like. Do you assist with these all the time?”

“More than I care to admit,” the nurse said. “Actually, I can handle one, but when they start to come back for the second or third time, it really gets to me.”

As I left the operating room, I shook my head in an attempt to get the horrible vision out of my head. I couldn’t. It was there; it would always be there: a little hand…a little rib cage.

For some years after that, I had a recurring dream. A little baby would reach out to me. I would try to get to the baby, but my legs would be like lead weights. When I’d finally drag myself to the baby, he would be gone. I knew the dream was symbolic of the guilt I was feeling. I could not have stopped that abortion, I had not the courage or the authority.

I no longer have the dream, God, in his infinite wisdom, set me free. But I still have the memory — the little hand…the little rib cage. The difference now is, I don’t want the memory to leave. It gives me strength.

From what I read, 25 million [now over 40 million] more babies have been aborted since the one I saw in 1975. That baby who was never given a chance would now be 23 years old. But I believe that little child has an immortal soul just as I do. He now resides with God. And nowadays, when I stand alongside the highway, holding my sign that reads “Abortion Kills Children” I think of the soul of that baby and the tiny body that ended up in a stainless-steel pail at the doctor’s feet. Then I hold my sign even higher, because I know that baby is looking down at me and is glad I’m there.

Source: New Man’s Magazine, Oct 30, 2002 (by Don Haines)

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