Incest victim on abortion

From a woman who was a victim of incest and never got pregnant, but had an abortion later, and regretted it.

“I really feel sorry for women who have had abortions. It’s never a good thing, not even in the case of incest. I’ve been through incest with my natural father – though I never became pregnant. Even in the case of incest, abortion is wrong. It would only hurt the girl more, physically and emotionally.”

David C Reardon Aborted Women: Silent No More (Westchester, Illinois: Crossway books, 1987) 150

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I waited for someone to talk me out of it

From a woman who recounts her abortion. She says that, while sitting in the clinic waiting room:

“I waited for someone to talk to me. I wanted someone to tell me not to do this. Anyone. But no one did. And it was done.”

David C Reardon Aborted Women: Silent No More (Westchester, Illinois: Crossway books, 1987) 144

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Woman becomes pro-choice after multiple abortions

A woman who became pregnant at 18, while her husband was in the armed services wanted very much to have her baby, but was told that her child would be handicapped because of the medication she was taking. Initially, she refused to abort. Her doctor tried to convince her, then sent her home. Over the next few days, he continued to pressure her to have an abortion, telling her that the baby would be deformed. She suspected, in retrospect, that he was afraid of a lawsuit. Eventually, she gave in. This abortion led to a downward spiral of drinking, drugs, and divorce. She became very pro-choice after having three more abortions:

“I talked real openly about abortion. I was pro-choice, and I talked to other women about the value of having an abortion. During my first abortion, I would’ve said that, “no, I don’t think abortion is right. But in my case, since the baby might be deformed, it’s okay.” But with each successive abortion, my attitude got worse and worse. I became increasingly pro-choice, to the point where I would say to other girls, “Big deal if you could pregnant. You can have an abortion. I’ve had three and it hasn’t hurt me a bit!”

I found that in talking to other women about abortion, their decisions to abort satisfied something in me. It made me feel better about what I had done. It was like I was gloating in their misery. If I’d had an opportunity to work at a counseling center to counsel women before their abortions, I would’ve done it. It would have strengthened my own decision to abort.”

She eventually came to terms with the emotional damage her abortions did to her:

“I’ve thought about why I kept doing that to myself, getting pregnant and having abortions in an endless cycle. I felt like I did it because I had to prove to myself that I was right. I had to prove to myself that it didn’t hurt, that I could go through it over and over again. It wouldn’t hurt. The more I did it, the less it hurt, physically and emotionally. I didn’t myself to pain – and to right and wrong. And so finally, with the last one, it didn’t hurt at all… I started to think about my life. Then – something clicked in me. I began to realize that everything I had done – the abortions, drugs, affairs, depressions – had all been the result of the circumstances of my first abortion.”

David C Reardon Aborted Women: Silent No More (Westchester, Illinois: Crossway books, 1987) 85-87

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Clinic Counselor; Women don’t open up

From a counselor in an abortion clinic:

“Abortion is very emotional for everyone. The women think, let’s get it over with fast. They don’t open up in counseling as they should… So the trouble doesn’t come out till afterwards and they just keep it all in. Postabortion counseling doesn’t do any good either, because if the woman has any regrets, admitting it will feed her guilt feelings even more…”

Linda bird Francke The Ambivalence of Abortion (New York: Random House, 1978) 253

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Abortion grief at 50-60

Ann Saltenberger presented the following quote, attributed to a textbook on psychology in her book  Every Woman Has a Right to Know the Dangers of Legal Abortion (Glassboro, New Jersey: Air Plus Enterprises, 1982)136

“The significance of abortions may not be revealed until later periods of emotional depression. During depressions occurring in the 5th or 6th decade of the patient’s life, the psychiatrist frequently hears expressions of remorse and guilt concerning abortions that occurred twenty or more years earlier.”

 

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Gloria Swanson on her life’s greatest regret

Actress Gloria Swanson said the following:

“The greatest regret of my life has always been that I didn’t have my baby, Henri’s child, in 1925. Nothing in the whole world is worth the baby, I realized as soon as it was too late, and I never stopped blaming myself.”

She made this statement towards the end of her life.

Doctor Herbert Ratner, “A Baby on Her Mind”, Life and Family News brochure

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Chicago abortionist on sales tactics

From the owner of an abortion clinic:

“We have to sell abortions. We have to use all the tactics we can because just like my other businesses [a trucking firm, a pollution control business, and a real estate sales office] we have competition. Now, we have to go by the rules, but rules have to be broken if we are gonna get things done.”

Pamela Zekman and Pamela Warrick “The Abortion Profiteers” Chicago Sun-Times November 12, 1978, 12

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Post-aborton woman sees aborted baby in a hospital lab

From a woman who worked in a hospital lab. She had had several abortions.

“Working there [in a hospital lab] also gave me the chance to see the effects of an abortion. I walked in the lab one day and saw these big plastic bowls with lids on the table. As I walked toward them, the lab technician said, “I don’t think you want to look in there.” So I picked it up and looked in underneath, and I saw a baby floating in there. It had little legs, fingers, toes, eyes. It shocked me, but I set it back down. I was so hardened at that point that I just didn’t let it get to me. But I know did something to me; I’ve never been able to get that picture out of my mind.”

David C Reardon Aborted Women: Silent No More (Westchester, Illinois: Crossway books, 1987) 86

unborn baby’s foot at 12 weeks

 

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The Philadelphia Inquirer on babies born alive after abortions

During the 1980s and early 90s, the most common type of 2nd and 3rd trimester abortion was saline abortion, where a caustic salt solution was injected into the woman’s womb, slowly poisoning the baby and burning her skin. The woman would then go into labor and give birth to a dead baby. In some cases, however, the baby would be born alive.

Here is how one abortion clinic dealt with their live births:’

“At the time of delivery, it has been our policy to wrap the fetus in a towel. The fetus is then moved to another room while our attention is turned to the care of [the woman]. She is examined to determine whether complete placental expulsion has occurred and the extent of vaginal bleeding. Once we are sure her condition is stable, the fetus is evaluated. Almost invariably, all signs of life had ceased.”

Liz Jeffries and Rick Edmonds, “Abortion: the Dreaded Complication.” The Philadelphia Inquirer, August 2, 1981.

Baby aborted by saline. From priests for life
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Abortion on the assembly line

From an abortion patient:

“I could swear that there was only one doctor and he just went down the line, giving abortions. I started crying because I could hear that little [suction] machine going on and off. He just kept getting closer and closer. I heard his gloves pop off in the next room and then he came to me. He didn’t say a word. Became inundated and walked out in three minutes. Then he started down the hall again…”

Pamela Zekman and Pamela Warrick “The Abortion Profiteers” Chicago Sun-Times November 12, 1978, 12

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