Author explains her unexamined pro-choice views

A pro-choice author, Cara J. Marianna, who interviewed dozens of postabortion women for a book she was writing, explains why she was pro-choice before she began the writing project.

She says that because of her feminism and basic political persuasion, she assumed that she should be in support of legalized abortion.

Her self-identified feminism and the other opinions she held were what prompted her to be pro-choice, not an honest examination of the abortion issue. She never claims to have been converted to the pro-life side, but clearly has some ambivalence by the end of the book.

She gives the insight that she was pro-choice even though she didn’t know that much about abortion, just because it seemed like she was supposed to be.

“As I moved further into the writing process, as I continually referred to women’s stories—read and reread their personal narratives—I became ever more aware of my own assumptions about the issue.

I came to see my own position as a set of beliefs built upon certain cultural scripts that I happen, probably for a great variety of reasons, to identify with.

According to those generally feminist and politically liberal narratives, there are certain things I am supposed to think about abortion: Abortion is a political, rather than religious or moral issue, and is a matter of human liberty, in general, and women’s equality, in particular.

Legal abortion is fundamental to reproductive freedom and women’s health and well-being. Like a religious person who opposes abortion, I take my beliefs to be articles of faith.”

Cara J. Marianna Abortion: A Collective Story (Westport, CT: Praeger, 2002) Xiv

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Woman goes in for abortion, refuses to see ultrasound screen

One woman who went for an abortion says:

The clinic buzzed us in. We were the first ones in that morning. Dave and Kiddo sat in the waiting area as a nice woman brought me to an exam room and had me fill out some paperwork. I was still shaky.  A little while later, they did another pregnancy test to confirm my results.

Then, the doctor did an ultrasound. She asked if I wanted to see the screen and I said no. I knew I needed an abortion and I didn’t need to see anything. She estimated I was about six weeks along.

Ann Kingsleigh “How My Abortion Enabled Me To Be A Better Mother” Mommyish  Sep 13 2011

6 week preborn baby
6 week preborn baby
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We can define a “fetus” any way we wish

Pro-Choice apologist Dr. Garrett Hardin:

“Whether the fetus is or is not a human being is a matter of definition, not fact: and we can define it any way we wish….

It would be unwise to define the fetus as human (hence tactically unwise ever to refer to the fetus as an “unborn child.)”

Garrett Hardin “Abortion – Or Compulsory Pregnancy?” Journal of Marriage and the Family 30 (May 1968): 250-251


can we simply define this baby as not a human being, and then kill him?

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Pastoral letter of support for abortion

Here is a letter a group of clergy wrote in support of abortion, along with the reality of what they support.

“Pastoral Letter About Your Abortion Decision” Planned Parenthood’s RELIGIOUS AFFAIRS COMMITTEE [distributed by PP.]

“We believe, as religious leaders in our faith communities, that abortion is a morally permissible choice for a woman facing a problem pregnancy. … Abortion is chosen for medical, physical, emotional, economic and relational reasons. It is a choice made by women, often in consultation with partners, families and friends. We support you and your ability to choose what is best for you.

11 weeks
11 weeks

We believe, as religious leaders in our faith communities, that ultimately no one can make the choice for or against abortion except the woman herself. No one knows your life as you do. We trust that any decision you make will be made after serious thought and contemplation of the alternatives. You will make the best decision you can. …. If you have thoughtfully decided to have an abortion then you should be at peace with your decision…

15 weeks
15 weeks

[T]he decision to have an abortion will not threaten your relationship with God. …We believe that God is compassionate and does not expect any of us to lead perfect lives. … God is not angry with you and will not punish you for any choice you have or might make. In fact, we believe that God loves you and will be with you helping you find strength and understanding and comfort for living through days of doubt and distress.…

8 weeks
8 weeks

You may wonder from time to time if you made the right choice. You may be sorrowful, doubtful or depressed because of your choice. These are natural emotions. Experiencing this does not mean your decision was a bad one. It may mean that you are a sensitive person. …. If you think that it would be helpful for you to talk to a minister, Planned Parenthood keeps a list of clergy who would be supportive of you and the decision you have made. They will see you for no charge and not pressure you to become part of their congregations. We want you to have a peaceful road ahead.
God Bless you!”

20 weeks
20 weeks

COMMITTEE

Reverend Debbie Pitney, Reverend Steve Carlson, Reverend Ken Henry, Reverend Ben Dake, Reverend Melanie Oommen, Reverend Gregory Flint, Reverend Danna Drum Hastings, Reverend Dan Bryant, Reverend Zane Wilson, Reverend Jonathan Weldon, Reverend Jan Fairchild, Reverend Bruce Cameron, and Rabbi Yitzhak Husbands-Hankins.

From Saynsumthn’s Blog Visited 9/2/2017

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Planned Parenthood board member was going to be a nun

Planned Parenthood board member Lee Lee Doyle:

“In my early twenties I was preparing to dedicate my life to Christ as a nun. However, the day before I was set to take my first vows, I realized that this was not my calling …I liked the life and work of the nuns … but not the spiritual aspect…

For me, my support of Planned Parenthood’s mission comes as part of my theology, not in spite of it. And I’m not alone.…. There is broad religious support for Planned Parenthood.”

“A Matter of Faith” The Source Planned Parenthood Fall 2013

Planned Parenthood commits almost a third of the nation’s abortions.

12-week-old potential Planned Parenthood victim:

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Woman feels baby kick before her abortion

From a woman who had an abortion after her baby was diagnosed with kidney trouble. He may have been on dialysis or needed a kidney transplant:

“It was a Friday afternoon, and we scheduled the dilation and evacuation for Monday morning. It was surreal … to walk around feeling our baby kick his little legs and flip around, knowing that after Monday I would never feel him again…Our daughter understood only that the little baby in Mommy’s tummy was very sick”

Phoebe Day Danziger “A Peaceful DeathSlate FEB. 5 2014

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Woman having abortion concedes there is “a baby”

From one woman who had an abortion:

“Once I was committed to having an abortion, I almost couldn’t stand knowing a baby was growing inside me. My mother-in-law gave us the $500 cash we needed (she is an unequivocal pro-choice advocate).

I went through the time between making the appointment and the appointment itself like an automaton, doing everything exactly, thoughtlessly, numbed. I don’t believe I allowed myself to consider my own feelings about abortion until it was over.”

Helen Susan Edelman, “Safe to Talk: Abortion Narratives as a Rite of Return,” Journal of American Culture 19, no. 4 (1996)

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Pro-Choice author discourages adoption

Miriam Claire, a pro-choice author who wrote a book on adoption, says:

“Unfortunately, a woman who has a baby and elects to adopt it out as opposed to having an abortion has a picture to remember. Too frequently, she will be haunted by doubts about whether she did the right thing adopting her child out. I think it’s better for the woman to terminate the pregnancy early, before there’s anything she can relate to, and get on with her life.”

Miriam Claire The Abortion Dilemma: Personal Views on a Public Issue (New York: Insight Books, 1995) 220

Adoption is an option both mother and baby can live with.

Even early abortion at only 7 weeks is brutal and violent for the baby

From the remains of a 7 week aborted baby
From the remains of a 7 week aborted baby
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Couple tries to connect with “spirit” of baby they want to abort

From Lauren, who had an abortion:

“He and I did a lot of meditation together, trying to connect with the spirit of the child. We told it we really loved it, but soon we were going to ask it to leave.”

Anna Runkle In Good Conscience: A Practical, Emotional, and Spiritual Guide to Deciding Whether to Have an Abortion (San Francisco: Jossey–Bass Publishers, 1998) 60

The baby was not asked to leave, he or she was violently dislodged from the womb and sucked out in pieces.

First trimester abortion procedure
First trimester abortion procedure
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My pregnancy was “a gift” but I had an abortion

From one 29-year old woman who had an abortion:

“My boyfriend and I are thinking about marriage, but we’re really focused on our goals right now… I’m training to be a nurse, and he’s training to be a firefighter. We’ve worked for these goals too hard to lose it right now…

I loved being pregnant… I felt beautiful and different from what I normally feel.… The whole time we both knew that we were going to have an abortion. It wasn’t going to go too far. That’s what made it even more beautiful…

I had numerous dreams that it was a boy, which made it more difficult, because I really want a boy…

My sister’s been trying to get pregnant for years and years. She even offered to take the baby, but that was definitely out of the question… I didn’t want anybody else to bring up our child.…

I think God is okay with it… I always wonder whether on a spiritual level it was right or wrong – will I have to face it when I die?… I have fears I won’t be able to have kids and I think – what if that was my only chance?

Still I don’t look back with regret. I feel good about what we did. I don’t even regret getting pregnant; that in itself was a gift.”

Anna Runkle In Good Conscience: A Practical, Emotional, and Spiritual Guide to Deciding Whether to Have an Abortion (San Francisco: Jossey–Bass Publishers, 1998) 37 – 39

7-wk-dia

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