Abortion at 7 Weeks Pictures

This page shows pictures of abortion at 7 weeks. First, here are some pictures of living unborn babies at 7 weeks:

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an unborn baby at seven weeks

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Before you look at the pictures of abortion at 7 weeks, I want to share something with you. If you are woman considering abortion, and you came to this page wanting to find out more, I want to talk to you from the heart and share some information about abortion at 7 weeks that you might not know.  If you are not a woman seeking an abortion, and/or don’t want to read my message just scroll down to see the pictures.

First I want to tell you a little more about your baby. I’m getting this info from the site Endowment for Human Development, a scientific website affiliated with National Geographic. It has no ties to the prolife movement.

The baby inside you has had a beating heart for 4 weeks now. He or she has brain that is giving off waves.   Your baby responds to touch and will have a startle reaction when he or she is touched with something.  The baby will pull away and react when the abortion instruments come at her. Some scientists believe she can feel the pain of being ripped apart. She can have the hiccups.  The stomach produces digestive juices and the kidneys have begun to function. 40 muscle sets begin to operate in conjunction with the nervous system. If she is a girl she has ovaries of her own. With fingers and toes, she is a unique individual who has never existed before in all of history and will never exist again.

Jewels Green worked in an abortion clinic. Her clinic only provided 1st trimester abortions. She held women’s hands, watched women cry as they had their abortions. And in the backroom, she handled the broken pieces of the babies, holding the aborted babies’ feet up to a little chart to verify how far along the pregnancies were for the clinic’s paperwork. Even in the 1st trimester, many of the babies were fully  formed, like the pictures you just saw. She told me that after each abortion, she had to look through the torn apart remains and make sure there were two arms, two legs, one head ,etc. Any parts left behind could cause an infection in the mother.  In a book by pro-choice author Wendy Simonds called Abortion at Work, clinic worker “Risa’ says: 

“I hate it when people put it [the aborted fetus] together to look like a baby. I hate that…

On page 86-87 of the same book, Simonds says all the clinic workers she interviewed told her “they never look at the face” when processing ’tissue’ from abortions.

Right now you may feel frightened, worried and alone. I don’t know your situation, but I know there are places out there that can help you. There are these places called Crisis Pregnancy Centers. These centers exist all over the world. They can help with all kinds of things. The one in my town provides counseling, help finding medical care, a place to live if the woman is homeless, baby clothes, maternity clothes, cribs, diapers, information about applying for benefits if you choose to, job training, help finding a job, parenting classes, and other services.

Also, most of these places will do an ultrasound. Most abortion clinics will do an ultrasound too, but they will charge you for it. The crisis pregnancy center will do one for free. If you DO decide to have an abortion, and you tell the clinic you have already had an ultrasound to verify length of pregnancy, they may say you don’t need another one- and you’ve just saved yourself a hundred dollars. The crisis pregnancy centers. can’t stop you from having an abortion, no one can, abortion is legal. But they can give you information about abortion’s risks and alternatives you may not get at the clinic. And all their help is FREE. Whereas an abortion clinic is a business that makes profit and charges for everything it offers. The main reason abortion clinics have for turning away women and sending them home is not health problems, but lack of money. The owner of one abortion clinic said in the Chicago-Sun Times:  (he didn’t realize he was talking to a reporter)

“We have to sell abortions. We have to use all the tactics we can because just like my other businesses [a trucking firm, a pollution control business, and a real estate sales office] we have competition. Now, we have to go by the rules, but rules have to be broken if we are gonna get things done.”

Former abortion clinic worker Nina Whitten says:

“Every single transaction that we did was cash money. We wouldn’t take a check, or even a credit card. If you didn’t have the money, forget it. It wasn’t unusual at all for me to take 10,000 to 15,000 a day to the bank – in cash. It’s a lie when they tell you they’re doing it to help women because they’re not. They’re doing it for the money.”

There are MANY more quotes like this here.

Clinics can only stay open if they make money. They even charge for pregnancy tests, often many times more than you would pay buying one at the supermarket. (and it’s the same test) They don’t make any money if you walk out and have the baby. But crisis pregnancy centers have no financial stake in your decision. They will give you information that the clinic won’t, because the clinics are afraid of losing your business.

I will give you the numbers and contact info for the pregnancy centers if you scroll down.

But first please look at some of the pictures of what will happen to your baby at 7 weeks if she or he is aborted. All these pictures show abortion at 7 weeks.  Abortion at 7 weeks is not like removing “tissue” or “cells.”

If you are planning on having an abortion at 7 weeks by pill, the abortion pill causes the lining of the uterus to break up, preventing the baby from receiving oxygen and nutrients so that she suffocates and starves. After the baby dies, she is passed out of your body. This is how an abortion at 7 weeks is performed by pill.   Go here for some more information about the abortion pill,its risks, and personal testimonies of people who did it.

Some women who take the abortion pill have horrible experiences with agonizing cramps and super heavy bleeding. Read a former Planned Parenthood director’s experience here, or this one from the magazine Marie Claire. 

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If you have taken the abortion pill but now regret it it may not be too late to save your baby . Go here immediately  or call 1 877  558 0333

From Jewels Green, who I mentioned before.

“Working in the autoclave room was never, ever easy. I saw my lost child in every jar of aborted baby parts. One night after working autoclave my nightmares about dead babies were so gruesome and terrifying and intense I met with the clinic’s director to talk about my feelings. She was very understanding, open and honest, and painfully forthright when she told me, “What we do here is end a life. Pure and simple. There is no disputing this fact.”

Read Jewel’s Green’s testimony here.

And now the crisis pregnancy centers:

Birthright is an excellent organization that helps women considering abortion. They have centers mostly in English speaking countries. They are not affiliated with any religion. I called them once. When I told them I was pro-life, they made a point to tell me they were “not political” They will not try to sway your decision. They have a 24 hour hotline. Please call them at 1-800 550 4900

Carenet is a Christian group of crisis pregnancy centers. They can help in many ways. Their page has an anonymous chat and they too have a hotline, as well as a directory you can search to find a center near you. Go here. 

And here is an international directory of pregnancy help.

If you have had an abortion and need support, here are some links for you to try.

There are other options for you than abortion. What about adoption? A lot of women feel they can’t “give away” their baby. But adoption is not the same as it used to be. Now there is open adoption, where you can be in touch with the family that raises your child and even be a part of that child’s life. I have a friend who is  therapist, who says that her clients who give babies up for adoption do much better emotionally than those who have abortions- because they know their babies are alive and happy and not dead. Another person I know gave her baby to a couple in Canada. Now she and the family are close and she spends every Christmas with the couple. She had another daughter, who she kept, and the girls are growing up like cousins. She didn’t lose a baby- she gained a family.

Please also know that abortion can cause a lot of heartache to you, the mother. Two large studies in Finland that looked at medical records found that the suicide rate for women who abort is 6-7 times that of women who don’t. For teenagers, another study found a 10x higher suicide rate.  Another study found that women who abort have a higher rate of seeking psychiatric treatment both inpatient and outpatient. Other studies show higher rates of substance abuse for post-abortion women.  Here are some of these studies.

Have some studies found that women who abort do not suffer any negative feelings afterwards? yes. But the studies that show this have several serious methodological flaws. For one thing, they usually interview the women one time in the abortion clinic and then again a few weeks later. They don’t follow the women for very long. It often takes a little while for negative feelings to surface, which is why studies that follow women longer always find more negative effects.

Also, these studies have a very high attrition rate. In one, 30% of women dropped out between the first and second questionnaire. No effort was made to follow up with these women or find out why they did not want to talk about their abortions.

Although women very rarely die of abortions in the first trimester, there are other risks. Having an abortion can create scar tissue on the uterus which can cause tubal pregnancy, a potentially fatal condition where a subsequent baby develops in the Fallopian tube. Also, scarring can cause infertility.  Damage to the cervix, the opening to the womb, (the cervix is meant to open slowly during hours of labor, not be wrenched open in seconds by the abortionist) can cause miscarriages, premature births, and stillbirths when it gives way in a future pregnancy.  See studies here. 

Also, there are no less than 58 studies showing a link between abortion and breast cancer. This is because the breasts begin to change in the first days of pregnancy to get ready to produce milk, but don’t finish changing until the third trimester. Aborting before then puts them in an intermediate state, more susceptible, some researchers say, to cancer. This is still very controversial, as some studies contradict this. But there is enough evidence to make this something to consider.

Finally before you go to the abortion clinic, read about what other women’s experiences with abortion were like. Silent No More collects the testimonies of women who had abortions. It has over 2000 stories. if you read what these women are saying, you may get an idea of what abortion is like. Also, if you do have an abortion, Silent No More can tell you where support groups and other resources for post-abortion women can be found. Read what other women are saying.

There is another thing you may not realize. Do you have other children? My friend Susi runs a ministry for the siblings of aborted babies. She started it in honor of her little brother, who was aborted. Often when a child (or even an adult child) finds out that their mother had an abortion, it brings up feelings of sadness, grief, survivors’ guilt, and shock. You may say you will never tell your children, but secrets have a way of coming out in families, and kids are very good at figuring things out. My friend talks to siblings all over the world who mourn the brothers and sisters they never had. Please go here to read a message she wrote to abortion minded women. 

And if you just want someone to talk to, feel free to email me sarah5775@gmail.com

Again, if you have had an abortion and need support, here are some links for you to try.

Now you know what an abortion at 7 weeks is like. Before you make your final choice about whether to have an abortion at 7 weeks, I want to leave you with these words from a woman who had an abortion. When asked what she would say to other women considering it, she said:

Never kill the child. It will haunt you the rest of your life… Recognize that, if you have the abortion, you’re not only killing your child, you are killing someone’s brother/sister, someone’s cousin, someone’s friend, someone’s grandchild, someone’s mother, someone’s father, someone’s neighbor. Realize that abortion is killing children…”

Jeanne G Miller Lives Interrupted: the Unwanted Pregnancy Dilemma (Tyler, Texas, 2014) 126

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81 thoughts on “Abortion at 7 Weeks Pictures”

  1. This page is disgusting and offensive for women who have gone through such a traumatic experience already. Everyone has the right to make their own choices and to make a decision based off of what’s best for them. Abortion is a legal procedure in most countries now and some of this information is totally incorrect. If you need advice on what to do, look at websites that are from women’s health clinics or organisations that give scientific information that is objective to opinions. Talk to someone you trust or a trusted Dr. Half of these websites are only in it for one thing- to scare people into making a decision that may not be right for them.

    1. Hey Joanne,
      You are welcome to present information regarding any scientific inaccuracies to me and if you provide documented proof, i will fix it. Pictures of living embryos are all taken from the Endowment for Human Development, a neutral website associated with National Geographic that educates on prenatal development. http://www.ehd.org/
      As far as women’s health clinics providing neutral information, if those clinics perform abortion, they have no real interest in telling or showing what happens to the fetus or embryo during the abortion procedure. Many will not even use the term fetus or embryo to describe what is removed during the procedure, instead using the term pregnancy, as in “Gentle suction will safely remove the pregnancy from your uterus.” They display the same misguided attitude that you do, in that they think that shielding the truth from women is necessary in order to ensure that they make “the decision that is right for them” without being swayed by concerns for their fetus or embryo and its moral rights.

    2. As far as what occurs during an abortion procedure, this illustration from Nucleus Medical Library, which sells illustrations to medical textbooks, shows what happens to a 9 week old fetus during a suction aspiration abortion procedure. http://www.medicalillustration.com/generateexhibit.php?ID=11041&ExhibitKeywordsRaw=&TL=&A=1282
      This abortion provider gave the following sworn legal testimony when asked to describe what happens during a 1st trimester suction aspiration abortion procedure.
      Well, when we do a suction curettage [suction aspiration] abortion, you know, roughly one of three things is going to happen during the abortion. One would be is that the catheter as it approaches the fetus, you know, tears it and kills it at that instant inside the uterus. The second would be that the fetus is small enough and the catheter is large enough that the fetus passes through the catheter and either dies in transit as it’s passing through the catheter or dies in the suction bottle after it’s actually all the way out. (Sworn testimony given in US District Court for the Western District of Wisconsin (Madison, WI, May 27, 1999, Case No. 98-C-0305-S), by Dr. Martin Haskell, an abortionist. He describes legal activity.)

    3. Wow, two time winner! You know, we have the pill, IUDs, planB, act. Abortion isn’t birth control, and this is coming from someone who believes in choice. Get your act together, or at least your legs. You just give ammuninition to the prohibitionists.

  2. The pictures are frightening and very sad. I went thru the abortion experience a year ago, and again just yesterday. Even took a few big risks in order to do so but i would not change my actions even if i could go back. Just because a woman gets pregnant does not mean she has to give birth to that baby. It happens all the time, that’s what life is all about and our species (just like any other animal) began and has continued to evolve in such a way that reproduction is achieved easily. So many children in foster care, getting abused. So many children that were unwanted, that go hungry today. Every woman should recognize her ability to choose and make the decision best for her.

  3. I got pregnant at 16 an was nowhere near ready. I was actually already in the foster system an in and out of placements. My son was the best thing that ever happened to me. If it wasnt for him i wouldnt have had the motivation i have now prob. It was hard catching buses, his dad was in jail i had absolutely no support. Many nights i wanted to give up. It took me 6 years to finally get my life where i sort of wanted it to be. After years of working dead end jobs i got government assistance an went to school. It was hard strugglin all them years but it was totally worth it ! The decision is yours it takes the bad to appreciate the good. I never really stressed the the thiuggt of an abortion even tho it was a thought. It really depends on your emotional well being. If you question it too much an doubt yourself an sure an abortion may be a good choice, mabye it is. I feel as if we all have to die someday as bad as that sounds, but the choice is yours! Dont ever doubt yourself

  4. I’m 7 weeks pregnant and I’m confused. I’m not ready to be a mother. I’m thinking about having an abortion. I just turned 18 a few days ago. I’m not married, my bf is a lot older than me and I don’t want to spend the rest of my life with him. He’s divorced and already has 2 kids that he never sees. He’s good to me and wants me to keep it, but I’m afraid he’ll leave me in the future and Ill have to be a single mom. If he leaves me and i keep the baby, the kid will prevent me from being in future relationships and I won’t be able to go out with my friends without being judged. I never wanted to be in this position. Ever. I can barely take care of myself. I’m lost. I’m scared to kill my baby and regret it later or have an abortion because of the physical damage that can happen and I want to have a baby in the future. What do I do?

    1. Adoption; you can select parents, and have open so child can seek you out later, or closed. The parents usually cover all of the expenses and prenatal healthcare.

    2. Get rid of it.
      They are not yet humans or babies.
      I come from a long line of teenage mums and they would have done so much better in life if they had have aborted their babies.
      Babies take away all your chances at life if you are not ready to have them.
      Abort and get the merina IUD will stop you from having babies for the next 5 years.
      Go back to school, live life.
      Babies too soon will ruin you and most likely have a messed up kid who wasn’t raised right.
      And what are you doing with some creepy old scrub dude who already has abandoned 2 kids anways??? You too good for such BS <3
      p.s I am a mother of 2 and if I got pregnant now, i would abort to save the quality of all our lives

  5. Im going on week 6 with the new baby but i already have a one year old we both work low pay jobs he says we cant afford another and if i went through with it he would kill himself what should i do

    1. I was also 7 month pregncecy (twince) June 2014
      with the new baby but i already have a nine month old baby boy we both Dicede My first baby is to small and we cant another baby and if i went through with it he would kill himself what should i do but after abortion very guilty and sad after two month agein pregnancy after two month so I deside this child I never abort . Now I have two son 1st 14 Sep 2013 and 2nd 19 April 2015

  6. I am 7 weeks pregnant and I was raped by three guys I didnt even know. I never wanted kids right now but later in my future you know, but I thought about aborting the baby but i dont have it in my heart to kill it. I dont know what to anymore. I feel so bad because its not the baby’s fault for what those guys did to me. I wanted to give the baby up but I was adopted too and I told myself I would never give my baby away. Being raped is so embarrassing and the pain is there to stay but how does one get over something like this and move on with there life? How can someone do that and not think twice about the person their doing it too? I’m just concerned about the baby. What should I do?

    1. This picture and article is to scare you into wanting to keep it. If you feel it is in your best interest and sanity to terminate it, then you do that. You have your own mental healing and obligations to yourself to deal with after such an awful event. YOU are the most important thing you need to worry about. Im sorry for what you have gone through, but healing takes time and effort that will be hard to do with a child. If you were to keep it and not give up for adoption, do you think you will be in the right state of mine to care for it? Will you be certain you wont get depressed and it affect your parenting?

      While at 7 weeks it looks like a baby, its brain function isnt in a more conscious state until around 9 weeks. The “baby” has no perception that it is being aborted. It is not the childs fault, but think about the kind of life the child would have if it were to be brought into this world. Whether its adoption or keeping it.

      In my personal opinion of life, everyone is having their own kids, and people rarely are adopting these days. There are THOUSANDS of children who wont get adopted and belong to the system. Babies get adopted, sure, but then the older kids just sit there sad. Its also so hard to get approved to adopt. Children are sitting in foster not developing properly and having good exxperiences. Children are dying in foster from awful foster parents who abuse them. Children arent getting the best of their childhood years hoping for someone to come along adopt them and love them.

      We live in an egotistical society that tells us we need to have our own babies and spread our own seed. “My boy, my blood!” = what every guy I know says. We are overpopulated and there are so many kids up for adoption. We cant keep putting more kids out in the world and hope for the best. Especially in situations like your own where there is no reassurance that things will be okay for the child. We are having food and water shortages. Its been proven that we cant sustain the life on this planet with our current methods, but no ones changing the methods. If you are truly not ready to be a parent, and this world isnt prepared to handle any more kids, not keeping it is my opinion. You need to get yourself in a better place. Abortions are also mentally draining, but better to be able to move forward from it and heal all of your emotional wounds in this situation as best as you can.

      If one day you decide you want children, it will be on your terms, when you are ready. Maybe you can even adopt.

      1. Being a woman means taking responsibility for yourself and your body. It means you are capable of producing life and with that comes responsibility. You are not the only one that matters. If you have a life growing inside of you then you have a responsibility. Regardless of what religion your are or are not, basic human consciousness tells you there is life. Science tells us this as well. I lost a baby at 8 weeks and saw his tiny toes and fingers. Unless you are a sociopath, you will feel. So not listen to excuses from others or in your own head based on fear. If you choose to not keep these human beings then give them up for adoption. Don’t let your choice be a death sentence without a chance to live the very life you are now living. They deserve that chance. Being a conscious woman tells you this. If you are able to produce life, then choose to take responsibility and choose to allow these humans to live just as you are living. I have held the hands of many women who later seriously regretted killing their child. Do both of you a favor and give the child a chance.

        1. I don’t agree with Amanda. I’m also a victim of rape. I got an abortion, even though I don’t believe in them. It’s not fair and wouldn’t be fair to bring a child in the world alone with the memory of what happened. The child will one day ask who their father is and you have to bring up the gut wrenching memory. If you haven’t been raped you don’t understand the long term effects it has on you life. Mine happened at 18 I’m now 27 and still scarred. Do it the right way when your happy, in love and established . Best of luck to you!

          1. Mills – It sounds as though the abortion was not the fix you had hoped it was. We can’t turn back time on what happened and that is what we try to do with the horrors we face.

            Like it or not we cannot be un-pregnant. We can eliminate a pregnancy. We can stop a pregnancy. We can abort a pregnancy, but we cannot be un-pregnant anymore than we can be un-raped.

            You have a right to be scarred. You also have the right to be free from fear. I hope you find this in due time. Your life is worth it.

    2. Cassandra – You’ve had conflicting opinions posted for you to consider. The odd thing is none approached what you feel in your heart. You are so strong. You are a survivor. No evil doing can crush your spirit, unless you let it. You have nothing to be embarrassed about. It is those that attack you that should be embarrassed.

      It has been nearly a year since this posted. While I hope your life is in a good place, I don’t pretend that you don’t still struggle with the choice you made. Your life has been filled with challenges, but none greater than you can handle.

      Learn how this moment in your life fits into your life story. You have the potential to change other lives and help those struggling as you have. You’ve made that commitment before when you promised yourself you would not give up on a baby. I hope someday you get a chance to see this and reflect for yourself and those whose lives you touch.

  7. Hi everyone. I’m 7 weeks today. For the past few weeks I’ve been into severe depression. Felt my world was devastated. My life suddenly changed the moment I found out that I’m pregnant. I have a relationship with a widower who have happen to have 3 kids. I’m 26 and single, he is 39. My family weren’t aware about our relationship. My mom disagreed when I told her I was about to date a widower. But my dad told me that get to know the person first. And I did. His wife died of cervical cancer a year ago. Their kids are still young and I feel sorry for their lost at a very young age. He has amazing and brilliant kids. I really love kids. I loved his kids first before him. A lot of people around me been telling me that I’m so stupid to get into a relationship with him. But I didn’t listen to them, I love him and I’m happy with him. Sometimes I’m thinking that maybe this is God’s plan. Meeting each other was planned by God. A person like him needs someone to be by his side to help him with his kids. But it’s really a twist of fate. Unplanned, I got pregnant. I have a lot of plans for the future not only for myself but I’m already making plans and also including them. To my surprise and disbelief, first thing came to me is to get an abortion. The moment he found out, he was so mad at me telling me that I’m so evil wanting to kill innocent life. It was a blessing from God and I have no right to take away a life. That will make me a murderer. Out of fear, shame, doubt, guilt I wanted to do it. But I’m also afraid of the consequences that might rise after I do abortion. I have doubt I’m everything. Afraid of what ifs. Until now, I really don’t know what to do. I haven’t told my family yet and I’m really having a hard time dealing with my emotions and decisions. Though he’s been reassuring me that he will not give up on me and will stay by my side until we get through this. I feet like it wasn’t enough. I feel terrible about my feelings. My mind and my life is in chaos right now. I wanted to have my own baby someday but felt that this is not the right time to have one. I’m not emotionally, mentally, physically and financially prepared. A lot of evil things on my mind, Im also thinking of killing myself just get away from reality. Please help me get through this.

    1. I have the same situation also, O really don’t know know what to do, I cru myself to sleep because my boyfriend wanted to keep it but he’s not ready and he’s got his priorities and doesn’t care if I aborted the baby he said he got nothing to do with me once I aborted the baby, my parents didn’t know, I also thought of killing myself I feel horrible and I don’t know what to. I got no one to talk to. It’s depressing.

  8. My name is Cindy .I’m was 7weeks pg went to de Dr for scan than he said I’m 7weeks pg do I want de baby than I said no bcz I’m was not thinking straight I agree to take de pills I drink them while I’m was there n they give me more to use it at home but I didn’t use de pills I’m crying cz I want my baby .I did not finish de abortion pills.and I don’t feel anything at de moment beside de little cramps I felt at that moment.will my baby be still OK plz help

  9. Viewing these photos just breaks my heart. I actually decided to get an abortion earlier this week and I wish I didn’t. I was only 7.5 weeks and I was able to receive the abortion pill. Me thinking it would be easier, took that option with no second thought about it. Now, I’m 23, I have a supportive boyfriend, both military and I felt I just wasn’t ready and couldn’t leave my baby behind when we both deploy so we decided…
    It hit me SO hard! I really am upset about the decision we made. Here I am able to have and child, but there are so many around me unable to. My dance teacher just had a miscarriage. She was told she’d never be able to conceive. If you are reading this…don’t do it. Save that life. There ARE other options. There are people that will help you. You are NEVER alone. I will never forget about this. There are many what-ifs. And on top of all of this, the pain from the pill is SOOOOOO bad. I just knew God was punishing me. It felt like I was having a baby. And I was throwing up, #2, cramping, bleeding, and I had a fever all at the same time. I would never wish that pain on my worst enemy. It is something like you have never felt before. So don’t do it!! And the tissue you pass is so disturbing. I had to google it to see if it was normal after taking the pill. I hope I haven’t messed up any future chances of having a child because I really do want some… DONT DO IT!!

    1. Everyone wants to have their own child, and thats the problem. These fear mongering posts showing pictures of aborted babies encouraging people to keep kids the world isnt prepared to sustain. There are THOUSANDS OF CHILDREN UP FOR ADOPTION begging for a Mom and Dad and to be loved. Children suffer and die in foster homes every day by assholes who are just fostering them for a government paycheck.

      Despite so many children already out there needing parents, everyone wants to have their own. It doesnt seem like anyone who is pro-life, is pro-adoption. They want you to have your child and give it up for adoption if you dont want it, but then they dont encourage adoption.

      People will have miscarriage after miscarriage, and heartache after heartache because they feel its their duty as a woman to be pregnant. That they actually need to do this to be a Mother and feel like they got the most out of life. The ego isnt sustainable. If you are absolutely ready to have children, adopt some of the THOUSANDS of orphans who are rape babies who were denied abortions, children who were given up for adoption instead of aborted, children who lost their family in fires/accidents/etc, or children who were taken away from their parents for being crackheads and lousy parents. THESE children need homes.

      There are so many kids up for adoption that we dont need to be getting pregnant for a while. Can people claim the kids that are out there before they start adding more to the world? This is my opinion.

      1. Actually, there are many who are pro life and pro adoption. Newborns get adopted and there is a waiting list for newborns. I have worked in counseling and several agencies worked with our clients. You are misinformed. You are talking about older children. Yes, there is a problem with those children needing Jones, but understanding the politics of adoption and that these children were wanted at the time they were born. Putting abortion and children needing Jones in the same category as a problem is like blaming dolphins for the fish shortage.

  10. I’m 7 weeks pregnant. I’m just 18. I live with my parents. I have a very great job minimum wage but it’s building up as the years goes by. My boyfriend left me as soon as I told him I was pregnant & I refused to do the abortion. I tried telling my mom about it & she says I have to find my way out of their house they wouldn’t wanna see my face ever… I really need help. I don’t know what to do.. I can just think about killing myself or the child. I read up upon your site. I can’t allow my child to be torn apart limb by limbs.. I’m all alone … I need help financially, physically, mentally & emotionally. I feel my life is over. I wish there is someone that can help me right now & understand my situation. I don’t wanna kill my first child. Although some people forced me to abort it while some others encouraged me to keep it. WHAT DO I DO????????????

    1. Anna, I’m so sorry you are in this situation. It’s really rough to feel like you are alone. You are being so brave, and someday your child will be so grateful to you for giving her/him life. I wish I could just give you a huge hug right now! I’m posting this on the forum and also mailing it to your email address to make sure you get this (I am the owner of the site- no one else can see your email address and I won’t give it away. I just wanted to make sure you got my message) Please stay strong. Why dont’ you call this number: 1-800-4900. It’s a 24 hour hotline. Birthright (their website is here http://birthright.org/en/) is a great organization and they will help you. There are actually a lot of groups and volunteers that help people in your situation. There is another group that has centers all over the United States (there are also resources if you are in another country) and you can search for a center in your area (optionline.org) I have heard of these places providing women with a place to live if they have nowhere to go. Please try them. They really want to help. and their services are free. Many of them are women who were once in the same situation you are in so they “get it.” They want to help, just like I do. Write to me anytime. You aren’t alone!! I am so sorry your boyfriend left you. What a terrible thing to happen. And to not get support from your family is rough too- though just so you know I’ve talked to an awful lot of young women whose parents said they wanted nothing to do with them or the baby, and then when the baby was born and the grandparents actually see their grandchild for the first time, they fall in love. It’s hard to hate a baby, and just about all the time, the parents come around. IT just may take some time. Maybe if you go to one of those centers they can talk to your parents for you. They have all kinds of experience with situations like this.

      I know how scary and desperate things must seem now. But you are making the right choice. Your child will love you. I know its hard. Its’ like walking through a dark woods, a scary dark woods where everything seems black and you can’t see where the path goes and you think you’ll never get out of it. But no matter how scary it seems, no matter how hard it seems, you will get to the end and things will be better. And when you do get to the other side, you will have something so valuable waiting for you. A human being who owes everything to you. You are being a hero. A hero who is strong and gives life to another person. Dont’ lose sight of that. Hold on and be strong.

  11. One never gets over an abortion. I has one and reading this article tore my heart. Mine was in the first trimester due to “medical reasons”, but I cry for my child every day. I think every day what would happen if I continued my pregnancy and did not follow the medical advice. I feel broken, something is missing and that is my baby.

    1. I also crossed the same situation…. tat was a girl baby… she s exactly like me… now God Blessed me another child…

  12. Am doing ma youth service, am 7weeks pregnant, ma bf wants me 2 kip the pregnancy bt am scared what if he leaves. Am scared of abortion after viewing this. We are both AS and he said he will marry me after we have checkd the genotype of the child. My family are not aware of my pregnancy, what should I do?

    1. I think you should keep the baby. Otherwise you may feel bad about it later. A lot of women do, when they know or find out the actual facts about abortion and what it does to their babies.

  13. Hi well i am about 7 weeks pregnant mother of 3 boys their all in school now i have a job n i can say am doing ok.. but my problem is i cheated on my husband while he was in jail n now im pregnant.. i told him as soon as i found out and he broke up with me .. then a week later he looked for me again n said he forgave me but that i couldnt have the baby .. im so hurt dont know what to do .. i dont want an abortion… my husband is upset cause my boys arent his… and he wanted me as the mother of his first baby n now me bieng pregnant hes just upset.. i have an appointment for the abortion but i really dont want too…

  14. I did an abortion 8 months ago when my baby was about 7w2d..
    My fiance told my parents that i get pregnant, we think that we could keep our baby and they will accept my child but its all turn out different.
    We were forced to kill our baby, we try to search for help but we couldnt find one in indonesia, not like in america.
    My parents force us to abort our precious little angel, if we ran my parents will kill his family (my fiance is the oldest and he lives with his little sister n grandparents)
    My parents did this because they’re ashame, because they already mock my cousin who also get pregnant before marriage. At that hard days We dont know where should we share and find for help, i wanted to tell my cousin and family but i was very afraid..
    No choice, We have to let go of our precious little angel.
    I just want to say to those who were in the same position with me at that time:
    because your child’s life is so precious and if you did abortion YOU’LL REGRET FOR THE ENTIRE OF YOUR LIFE
    Been 8 months since that painful moment, me and my fiance are learning to live half alive. I cried everyday, I’m not lying, I cried EVERYDAY EVERYNIGHT until now.
    Mom please save your self, and the most important thing is to save you precious baby.

  15. I am about 6-7 weeks right now. I see the doctor for an ultrasound on Wednesday. I have medical conditions (suspected EDS, prior emergency c-section, asthma, and had my gallbladder removed while pregnant for gallstones). I am terrified of being pregnant right now because of how sick I get. SO was going to get snipped next month. This is a big surprise. We have 3 children and my last one was very hard on me. With possible EDS and the skin ripping and the severe complications I had through the c-section I am afraid to get another c-section but doctors won’t VBAC me because of my higher risk because of a possible connective tissue disorder. They think I could have a uterine hemorrhage and a whole slew of issues. I am really afraid to have a baby and am considering abortion right now. The pictures are gruesome and frightening but my children who are living and breathing need their mom in their life. This isn’t a case of “I was drunk and 16” this is a case of not knowing if I will make it out alive. I am very conflicted right now on what to do.

    1. Lily, I am so sorry for what you’re going through – but before you make a final decision, maybe you should think about talking to a pro-life doctor? There are doctors, experts in maternal – fetal medicine who say they could get any woman through pregnancy, no matter how high risk. There may be a doctor in your area who might be willing to treat you and would get you through the pregnancy. Of course, I cannot make this difficult and horrific choice for you – but if you’re willing to send me a private message and tell me where you are, I may be able to put you in touch with a pro-life Doctor, particularly if you live in the United States. It might be worth getting a second opinion from someone who’s a true expert. Whatever happens, you will be in my thoughts


  16. So I am 7 weeks prego with my 6th child the father wants me to get an abortion I’ve never had an abortion and don’t want to start but he doesn’t want me to give it up for adoption either he says for me to give it to him. I barely know this guy if I am going to give the baby up it’s going to be to my brother and his wife but I guess the state seeks out the father first and he said he would try to get custody if I gave the child up so that is out of the question but I really don’t want to abort but can’t afford another mouth to feed either so lost.

  17. I am 7weeks pregnant and would have already had an abortion by the pill had my blood pressure not been too high. I was instructed to get on medication and come back in a week. I am 41 years old and have 3 beautifully boys already. We arent excatly finacially sound right now. Now that ive had this time to think about it im reconsidering. But im scared. I dont want a new baby to take away what little i have to give to my 3 boys already. Just wanted to get it off my chest

    1. Anyone thinking about abortion. Please call me at (909) 243-0976
      My husband and I are interested in adopting your child. We can discuss more about paying you as well as help out during your pregnancy until the baby is born. We have been having problems having a child since I miscarried 4yrs. ago.

      Let me know, we don’t smoke or drink and are very loving and caring people.
      Give that child a chance to live their lives.

      Thank you.

      1. I am 7 weeks pregnant and are a mom of 4 already and a single mom at that. Last thing I want to do is abort. I’d rather find a caring family to care for this gift because financially I can’t.

  18. If you love your child you give it up out of love and sacrafice yes people say oh i cant do it but yrs to come you will feel proud of your decision and you will be surrounded by love by many and then yrs later you have an adult thanking you for choosing life a sacrafice out of love.

  19. I’m 6 weeks and 7 days pregnant. I have an abortion set up for next week . I scared but ik its something I need to do. I am now a single mom of a two year old and a 8 month old. I feel guilty now but I will feel even more guilty bringing a baby into the world that I can’t care for. I just lost my job and will have to move from my home. I’m currently going threw a divorce and he lives now 400+ miles away and has no intentions on coming back to help and barely helps with the two we have now. I pray god can forgive me but ik my baby will be in better hands with god.

  20. I’m 7 weeks the day after tomorrow and I stumbled across this site because I was browsing google images and curious how big my little embryo is. Although I’m not considering an abortion, I admit I did opt for an abortion in the past. It was not only the most difficult decision I’ve ever made in my life, it was both physically and emotionally painful. I can tell you that it took years to forgive myself for being so violent to my body and to nature.

    I found out I was pregnant after a full-blown psychotic episode that followed a period of depression, heavy drug use, and addiction. I had just enrolled in college and I was trying to climb out of rock bottom. I seeked counseling and talked to the women in my life who I respected. I decided that a baby needs a mother who can love and care for both herself and her child. I was still smoking and drinking and popping pills.

    Nobody told me that abortion would be such an emotional and spiritual battle. Nobody warned me that every woman responds to abortion differently – I was devastated, even though other women are able to come out ok. I cried every night for months. I thought about it every day for years. I apologized to the universe nightly and made a promise that I would use protection responsibly until I was ready for forgiveness, and to love and care for both my baby and myself. I’m not religious, but if you’re a human being with the capacity to feel love and pain, and if you respect and cherish the natural processes that are larger than yourself, it makes no difference. Abortion is a spiritual issue, as well. I’m happy to say that I’ve kept my promise, and my baby is on her way!

    That all being said, abortion is a personal issue that requires deep reflection, meditation, and all seriousness. Don’t let others decide for you (they convinced me to do something I probably wouldn’t have done otherwise). You need to look inside. Every woman is different and every situation is different. Love is the key!

  21. Hi,I am so confused and need someone to talk to,when I had my first child I and my husband had a really good time and we were happy having our first child together,so after 2 years I decide that I was ready to have another one and am seven weeks pregnant now but things re not the same,I can’t cook for him and our sexually life is really complicated,I feel like we re being far from each other.so I decide to go for an abortion,thou ave not done it now but am planing to but inside me I love this baby that is growing inside of me but at the same time,I don’t want to lose my husband.pls. Help. Me

    1. Hi unknown,
      I too am 7 weeks pregnant with my second child. And me and my husband have very little finances to support another child. Yet we have chosen to take on this burden, love our child, and try to find ways to bring in more money. For us abortion is not an option.
      I don’t know if your husband knows about your new baby or not. Or what your relationship is like. But I think he should have a say in your decision. If you haven’t already, you should talk to him. Let him know how your feeling. In the end it is your decision. if you already love this new baby I believe it will be hard for you to end it’s life. What ever happens I wish you well and will never judge you for your decision.

  22. It makes me so sad to think these young women and older women still carry guilt for the choice they made. Remember GOD LOVES Loves you! All you need to do is ask for forgiveness and GOD gives forgiveness freely! You can leave all that heavy guilt and pain with HIM at the cross. He paid for all our mistakes there. If GOD forgives us we are not better than GOD! Just let all that guilt and pain go. I believe abortion is wrong, but no worse than any other sin. God sees your heart, knows everything you ever did and HE still Loves you and me. God bless you, have Faith and be happy!

    1. Thank you Patricia for your kind and understanding words. I too have been struggling after having an abortion a year ago. I was newly married, living in a while new state, and my husband was being deployed and would have been gone throughout my pregnancy and the birth of our first child. I did not want to experience that without him. It was a difficult decision to make then, and I struggle with my choice every single day. I am not incredibly religious, but I do strive to do the right thing and value my good morals. I can’t help but constantly feel guilty about commiting a sin. It is comforting to realize that regardless of my actions of the past, God will forgive me, and God still loves me. Tha k you for that.

    2. It was nice to read your words. I have been struggling for a decade, trying to forgive myself. The pain is always in my heart. I think of what I’ve done each and every day. I have begged for forgiveness every day. I am now working with my priest. He assures me God has forgiven me. He said the amount of emotional pain and regret he could see in me and my tears, was nothing compared to what God sees. He knows how truly remorseful I am. He knows it has emotionally destroyed me forever. I wish so much that I could go back. That someone would have counseled me first, on both sides. But, I am still stuck here, in emotional anguish, working on forgiving myself.

  23. I really need someone to talk to. My boyfriend and I are expecting our first child together, I’m seven weeks today. The thing is I’m 20, in college, I work at a bank and he’s 27, has a one year old but he wants me to do an abortion. Hes got his own business but he has stumbled upon tough times and he says he’s worried he wont get back on his feet to be the good father he wants to be. I told him these things happen and wouldn’t be like this forever but he’s all about if he doesn’t have money, if I can support a child on my income and still pay for my education. I told him he’s worrying about the wrong things that this is a human life and my first. I won’t get to see what my child will look like, their first smile, their first nothing. He’s also worried about what my mom will say and what my sister will say, a life shouldn’t be dependent on thoughts of others and I’m so scared because it’s scheduled for tomorrow and I don’t know what to do. He said we’ll have kids but not now. I don’t wanna kill my first child. Help :'(

    1. hope its not too late, have you received help? Google Crisis Pregnancy Care centres in your area. Contact prolife groups in your area, they will direct you to help. Hard times will go away, and people can help, but nobody can return a baby to life after his life has been taken away. Best wishes

  24. I had an abortion At 7 weeks , I keep crying and crying about it . I wonder if I would of just gave it a chance . I feel guilty . I hope god forgives me . Im only 19 never been pregnant it was my first time . I live with my parents . Have no car and a job that pays low & still trying too go too school . My boyfriend is 19 live with his parents and has no job as of right now . I felt so sick I couldn’t bare . I will NEVER. Have one again I can’t believe I did I feel sad . And feel as if I will never know how the baby is gonna turn out . I was worried about my image , my dad not accepting it & not being able too fully support or go through the pregnancy without being moody & sick . The doctors there were nice but they just seem like they were acting too get it done . It’s something I will never forget . They didn’t let me see it afterwards but I just pray Im not judge & that god forgives me & I forgive myself . & if my baby is a spirit Im sorry & I hope I can be forgiving . I will never have an abortion again in my life . MAKE SURE YOY THINK IT THROUGH ..

    1. wow! you commented this on my birthday… umm in response to your comment im sorry that you had to give up your baby, I am 22 and I understand where you are coming from. I had on last year in December and I still think about it. I am also always thinking that I hope God can forgive me for what I have done and well I think that sometimes the best thing to do is to just try really hard not to think about it. and when you do think about it make sure to have someone to talk about it with you. maybe your boyfriend; sadly my boyfriend was working the day I did it and well I would have liked to have him supporting me but he wasn’t 🙁 but thank God I have my sister. she has listened to me whenever I feel down and she was with me through the whole abortion process. Well, what I do want to tell you is keep moving forward…sadly we cant changed the decisions we have made and now all we have left is to move forward. good luck, God bless and take care.

  25. I am 7 weeks pregnant right now. I’ve been soooo sick already and I’m scared to death of virtually every aspect of it- feeling like it isn’t the right time, how to tell family, worried because I’m not married, worried about money and freaked out that I don’t feel how i always imagined id feel or supposed to feel. I can’t even believe I’m a mom. And whoever is reading this found it for a reason. Like it or not, you are ALREADY a mother. Getting rid of it won’t change that. I even questioned if the soul was there and at what point. But I decided not to get an abortion. Whatever your situation, this is your chance to CHOOSE strength over fear. That’s basically what it boils down to is fear of something. I chose to not surrender to my fear, no matter how catostrophic it seems. Luckily we are human. It’s not like we have to stay in the situation we are in. If we don’t like something, all we have to do is change it. Someone said they didn’t feel worthy of praying to God. Well, you are wrong..it’s not just you. Not to impose my religion. But if you do believe in God, nobody is truly worthy of praying to Him. That’s why we say “in Jesus name, amen”…. Jesus delivers the message for us. Be thankful for Gods grace and mercy. We are all unworthy, honey. But if you think about it, He’s sending you one of his angels. If anyone needs to talk..comment to this and it will send to my email…or leave your email address. But I feel like God knows more than I do…who knows if your problems will be the same in a few years, but you can’t take this back. Fight for your baby. And realize you have so much to be grateful for. Think about those things instead of your fear. Love to all those reading this…ur not alone. <3

    1. D your comment really helped me to assure myself and boyfriend that I will not get an abortion. I don’t believe in it for one, however my boyfriend is Muslim and won’t stop begging me to. 🙁

    2. Ur message is very inspiring. Am also 7 weeks pregnant and i waz thinking to have an abortion next week.but UV truly changed my life.thanks

  26. I am 7 weeks pregnant today and last night I attempted to commit suicide. I was born and raised catholic and I want to keep this baby even though I am still college and work a mininm wage job. My boyfriend left me last night because he doesn’t want any children and just doesn’t want to be with me anymore my boss found out im pregnant so she treats me differently I was very lost and confused last night. I scheduled an appointment for an abortion but I am miserable I don’t want to kill my baby but it looks like Im having no other choice. please pray for me because I feel so unworthy of praying I need Gods help please

    1. I feel the same way..I’m a single mother to a one year old already and can’t imagine doing it again alone..I live with my dad and work as a server making 2.13$ an hour..I struggle so much already..how can I do it?? I can’t kill my own baby..it would destroy me

      1. You can do it! I’m in a similar situation. I have a 20 month old and just found out I am 5 weeks pregnant. I have considered abortion but have researched this and having one 12 years ago, can not do this again. I am not with the father but he supports us as far as paying the household bills. I do not work. I am scared i will not be able to afford this second baby. Me n baby #1 are scraping by. But when I think about the important things money isn’t one of them. I know a person needs a certain amount just to survive but I can’t see killing my child because it’s not a good time. Things will change, there are people and organizations that will help and you WILL find a way. I know the struggle will be hard one but it can’t last forever and in the end it’s so worth it. Be thankful you have your father and soon you will have another blessed baby.

    2. Maria, please do not attempt suicide. I was born and raised in church as well. Your boyfriend is a loser. And your job could replace you in a heartbeat–anybody’s could! You are in control of your own life. Fore get about those ppl that bring you down. Get rid of them! Not your baby who is going to love you and need you. There is always a choice. It’s hard being pregnant and sooo scary. And I’m only 7 weeks! I think it’s amazing that you could go through that with your partner and boss and deal with regular pregnancy stuff as well. Screw them! Please read my other response on here. It breaks my heart to read your comment. I’m so sorry for what you are going through, but this is an opportunity to change things for you. Clearly your boy doesn’t deserve you and I bet you are unhappy in your job anyway. Maybe that’s why this is happening. Maybe those things needed to go. They are harmful to you. Yes, I will pray for you. You can email me if you want? Lotsa love, sweetie. Be strong, please.

  27. I’ve had an abortion last sunday, it was horrible, and I am still bleeding and feeling a big amount of pain. In my country it’s against low and society treats babies with no marriage horrible like they are not even human and even my boyfriend didn’t want the baby it was 7 weeks and 1day. I feel so guilty. but there were nothing i could do. this is my last year at college and i missed the 1st semester exams and I can’t even tell my reasons because everyone will start treating me horribly. This is the most hard experience for me.

  28. I fully understand what a young girl goes through. I had an abortion 12 years ago and I still regret doing it.If I could turn back the clock Iwould and I would never had killed my baby.

    Yes I was unsure how family and friends would have reaxcted, but I was prepared for the crisism. ButI was forced to do by my ex. I hate him still today for what he made me do.

    So if there is anyone out there who is considering terminating your pregnancy,think really hard about it, as once it is done, there is no turning back.

    1. I had a abortion 28 years a go and have never forgiven myself if I could just turn back time .I would have another son or daughter more grandchildren ,I had no right to kill .this baby I was seven weeks pregnant but the doctors said it was 10 weeks which made it even worse
      My 21 year old Grandaughter as just had a abortion last week I tried so garden to stop her it felt if I could of saved this baby my baby wouldn’t of died in vain
      Just hope she does not have the guilt I have had all these years ..

  29. It takes a lot of guts to do that job it bloody sad when u look at those pictures being a mum knowing that that is how our bubs were, I’ve had an abortion n I still regret it every day my babies r 7 yrs and 4 /12 months and I’m 5-7 weeks pregnant, I was 11 weeks when I had my abortion it was my choice no one judged me exept me I believe every woman has the right to make that choice n depending on the circumstances some women feel that is the only answer, I was selfish I didn’t have a good reson so make shor that is realy what u want have been a single mum a junkie had problems with the drink money worries but hav always put my kids first its the most amazing thing bringing a life into the world

  30. this is something that should be shown to anyone wanting an abortion. they should be made aware of the pain, fetus will feel also.

    1. What a shame that U think so black and whitely about abortion.do U not think its a difficult thing to do for any woman,do U not think woman have a hard enough time as it is with a pregnancy and not being able to cope.i have had an abortion and it has haunted my thoughts for years but how disgusting to say your feutus feels the pain too..as if people don’t know.its disgusting to judge someone and their decisions when U don’t have a clue what’s went on in their life.

      1. No it’s disgusting to dismember and murder a living human baby and the abortion industry workers lie and tell scared women that it’s not a human it’s a lump of cells that feels nothing. If women could see this before they go through with this crime and know that the child feels being torn apart they might hopefully choose not to!

    2. Im 7 weeks pregnant at 17. How could you know what im feeling. The pain that i go through every day nd night knowing that i will have to give my child up and have an abortion. I know im strong and i know it will be the best thing for me and the child. I am adopted and had considered adoption, but i admit i am selfish and would never be able to let MY child be birthed my ME and give him/her to another couple.

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